"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wrote this for a private list serve that I have with my bros friends who invited me to it b/c of they know how am i with this...Though I'd share one of my posts....

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A lot of people ask me about how to approach/deal with working women, as some of them maybe very sexy.


A lot of my personal pickups are these types of women...here are some tips of things I do which yield success if executed correctly....


If a woman says "Can I help you" when you enter a store or "tell me if you need help"


You respond "Yes I need help, I have so much work to get done...I need a secretary etc etc. Or "yes I need help I have so much homework, you can do it for me…ok?"


My point being is when they ask if you need help always say YES and add something humorous...they are expecting you to say "I'm just looking around." Psychologically we are resistant as men to accepting this help...so by adding humor to the accepting of they help is golden.


After you have grabbed her attention and have her laughing a bit or interested...It times to "Bait the Hook"

I will give you one example of something I do...I have done this many times....

I will ask "What would you want your man to wear?" "Or dress me up as you would want your man to dress"

At this point her eyes will light up b/c this is kind of a fantasy she has...this women dress mannequins all day thinking "if this was my guy I would like him to dress like this"

I am making their fantasy come true.

After I try on the clothing I will tell her to come next to me. I will lock arms with her, look into the mirror with her then make some jokes about "I made your dream come true" "Or we look good together" or "You wish you can date me" or "I’m clearly your fantasy man, to bad I don’t date retail ladies" or w/e you would want to say.

The point is you tapped into her emotions. If this is executed correctly it’s unstoppable.

Keep Spinning,

J0504S
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks , I've never thought it this way. I have NEVER EVER SAID YES. I think i'm slowly grasping the core of Don Juan which is that we need to change the way we think
 

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mv.89 said:
Thanks , I've never thought it this way. I have NEVER EVER SAID YES. I think i'm slowly grasping the core of Don Juan which is that we need to change the way we think
Im glad I can help you...this has been key to getting women for me who work at the mall always answering them, when they speak to me...

another quick tip is if you are with a wing at the mall...have the mindset you are having a conversation...and the women you speak are joining YOUR CONVO...so its not like your interupting them, you inviting them in to a convo that already exists, so they are always tagging along....this mindset is gold for me.
 

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Thanks a lot, j0504s.

Very good advice on a very specific situation many people encounter every day.

I love your "What would you want your man to wear?"

I will try that, at least this will be fun. :)
 

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CloudSurfer said:
Thanks a lot, j0504s.

Very good advice on a very specific situation many people encounter every day.

I love your "What would you want your man to wear?"

I will try that, at least this will be fun. :)
not a prob buddy glad u liked it...its funny b/c these two females i know this weekend were lookig at pictures of some dude...and I said "his beared could use a diff. style" (it looked fkin bad) and the girl said "its fixble if he was with me I'd make it how I like it." Let them play that fantasy of dressing u up for a couple minutes it could get you the lay.....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Also I just want to add this is a fale safe ego boost b/c in the worst sittuation they must be nice to you. b/c they work there....but this has worked more times then I can tell you....
 

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Was looking at my posts thought I should push this up again
 

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bradd80 said:
j0504, what we also want to know is how concerned laurie is in the sack
Ill bet she's cold and stiff. and drier than the desert.
 

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Purefilth said:
Ill bet she's cold and stiff. and drier than the desert.

Lauries just cold and stiff in a few sacks without any concerns. R.I.Pieces
 

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bradd80 said:
j0504, what we really want to know is how concerned laurie is in the sack
It was all going well...till she "Boofed" A blue pill up my a$$ :moon: and now I am Forever afc ....LOL

Yes Brad she does swallow! 8===>~~:yawn:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Naughty Ninja said:
Lauries just cold and stiff in a few sacks without any concerns. R.I.Pieces
NN in a "FEW SACKS" is she cheating on me "tear tear" :D
 

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bradd80 said:
News Flash:

Bradd80 A legendary Don Juan from the SOsauve Community...Pulls his GF stealing abilities on J0504S wh o is also super alpha....out alphas him to steal a femenist named CONCERNEDLAURIE...For the sheer purpose to see if she swallows!!!!

:D :cheer: :crackup: :up:
 

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I love this and Id like to share this with noobies
 
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