"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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defiancy

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Sometimes would people tell you that you're weird when using C+F
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Andromax

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Eh?

Dunno about wierd, but people have thought I was a prick, or a snob when throwing C&F. Though its become habit, and is a large part of my normal communication. Some folks need to lighten up.
 

AnkleBreaker

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Yea me too, some say im a jerk,mean,*******,etc..

But they love being around me
 

Andromax

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I've seen some guys go overboard with it, and it becomes ****y and not funny. It just gets annoying when you are around someone for a bit and they are making everyone feel uncomfortable because of the crap they are saying that they think is a hoot.
 

MrCode

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You can definitely go too far. I think C&F is best used person to person as privately as possible, because it works better that way.

Ironically if someone said I was weird when using C&F, Id give them a C&F response: "you know I was thinking the exact same thing about you...I guess that means we'll get along pretty well."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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defiancy

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Originally posted by MrCode
You can definitely go too far. I think C&F is best used person to person as privately as possible, because it works better that way.

Ironically if someone said I was weird when using C&F, Id give them a C&F response: "you know I was thinking the exact same thing about you...I guess that means we'll get along pretty well."

LOL props to you on that one

For some reason I don't dish out my usual C+F routine anymore..and I'm feeling less confident when doing so...

I guess I just have to go with the natural flow again (i was naturally good at this)
 
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