"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sometimes would people tell you that you're weird when using C+F
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eh?

Dunno about wierd, but people have thought I was a prick, or a snob when throwing C&F. Though its become habit, and is a large part of my normal communication. Some folks need to lighten up.
 
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Yea me too, some say im a jerk,mean,*******,etc..

But they love being around me
 
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I've seen some guys go overboard with it, and it becomes ****y and not funny. It just gets annoying when you are around someone for a bit and they are making everyone feel uncomfortable because of the crap they are saying that they think is a hoot.
 
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You can definitely go too far. I think C&F is best used person to person as privately as possible, because it works better that way.

Ironically if someone said I was weird when using C&F, Id give them a C&F response: "you know I was thinking the exact same thing about you...I guess that means we'll get along pretty well."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by MrCode
You can definitely go too far. I think C&F is best used person to person as privately as possible, because it works better that way.

Ironically if someone said I was weird when using C&F, Id give them a C&F response: "you know I was thinking the exact same thing about you...I guess that means we'll get along pretty well."
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LOL props to you on that one

For some reason I don't dish out my usual C+F routine anymore..and I'm feeling less confident when doing so...

I guess I just have to go with the natural flow again (i was naturally good at this)
 
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