"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Resting on my shoulder

mustfirstregister

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What does it mean when her arm and my arm are touching and her head is almost resting on my shoulder while we are watching a movie in the movie theater?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Diaforetikos

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It means she likes you and is getting comfortable around you.

Now stop effin' analyzing little things like that. Your gonna get in your head and not focus on what's going on. That means she'll dump you and you won know why.

Now stop procrastinating, and read the DJ Bible. All of it. They have a 5-week plan that is easy to follow. Read it, practice and then ask questions.

Common a** questions, I swear...
 

L B

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In situations like this, you default to the "make a move" mode. Better to err on escalating than to regret not making a move. Do it enough and you will find that your judgment of the situation will improve immensely.
 

Coffeebazooka

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It means she likes you.

Pull her in and let her rest her head against your shoulder. Caress her a bit, play with her hair, maybe put a finger on her chin and turn her head towards yours, look in her eyes, smile and kiss her if she is not caught up in the movie ^^. At a moment like that you should let your instincts guide you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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