"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Soprano

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I've been using the "...And what makes you think I'm interested in you in that way?" line for a while now, I'm kinda getting tired of it but when the situation is there it's my favorite.

BUT... sometimes some smart ass girl will respond "then what way are you interested in me?"

and I ****ing draw a blank...

can anyone think of anything good for a response to this response to a line? ideas or anything...

thanks a bunch:cheer:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LeviathanIYG

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As soon as you refer to her as a friend she will think:

"Why doesn't this guy fall in love with me in 10 min like all the rest"

This means she will work extra hard to gain your interests.
 

Soprano

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the only thing im worried about with responding with "as a friend" with is it getting me stuck in her friend zone..... i guess it would work that way if i'm doin it right though
 

LeviathanIYG

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You wont go in the friends zone as logn as you make her wnat you.

That part is up to you and your skill though.
 
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