Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Response to "I've been seeing someone the past month"

Trace

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A girl and I made out one night at a bar and I got her number. I was texting her the next day and she said she had been seeing someone for the past month. What is the appropriate response/direction to go?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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st_99

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"So?"


I asked a girl I was dating a while ago to come out for some drinks. She said "but i have a date" I said, "cancel it"
She did. Of course it was easy for me to be DJ because I didn't like her really. :p
 

DonGorgon

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Trace said:
A girl and I made out one night at a bar and I got her number. I was texting her the next day and she said she had been seeing someone for the past month. What is the appropriate response/direction to go?
you say " I have need seeing 3 people for the last 3 months.. so its ok"

she is a ho and she is letting you kno..
 
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