“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Responding to "I love you"

The_Reaper

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Here's a fact most of you guys are well aware of: if a woman knows you are really into her, her interest in you will decrease. Now, when a LTR GF says this to you (I love you) - yet you still want to maintain this slight aloofness, instead of just replying "I love you too", what else could you say - without hurting her feelings or being an ass hole: Just something to let her know that she cannot take your affection for granted.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DarkLight

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um... how bout... "I love you", back!? lol

Its ok to love a chick!
And hopefully by the time a DJ expresses such a level of quality to a chick back, she already knows through his consistent actions of being a self-respecting MAN, that she cannot take his affections for granted!

You can still be a mystery, you can still remain in your power, etc etc etc.

You young bucks get too easily mislead by some of the information here.
Its about being a MAN! Not some vampire game spitting robot.

Enjoy the fruits of life to the fullest, your a GOD and this is EDEN.
Just next time EVE says "here try this apple"... tell her "NO!"
(then go to EVA and tell her to make you a steak, your hungry...lol ;))

...all there is to it.
 

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Its ok to love a chick!
Sure. But what if you're not at that point yet?

My favorite reply was from Han Solo, in ep5 as he was being lowered into the carbon freezing chamber:

Leia: "I love you!"

Solo: "........I know"
 

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To me...his post sounded like he was afraid he would lose his technically correct DJ "coolness" at the expense of just keeping it real.

But if not... then your Han Solo answer is def. gold, agreed.
 

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DarkLight said:
To me...his post sounded like he was afraid he would lose his technically correct DJ "coolness" at the expense of just keeping it real.

But if not... then your Han Solo answer is def. gold, agreed.

The thing is I ALWAYS tell her I love her too, but I just wanted to mix it up a bit, that's all. I'm definitely no game-spitting social robot.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think this thread has potential. Personally, I'd like to see people ring in with all kinds of different responses to "I love you". Because all I got is "I love you too." or "I know" (in a C+F kind of way).


how about "me too" (kind of ambiguous)
 

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There's a massive tradeoff...you don't want to sound TOO interested, however try C+F and the wrong answer here could put the relationship in trouble. If you are in an established couple, there is nothing wrong with saying it back. If you're not, then a kiss just after they said it is the best bet for delaying the inevitable 'how come you never said you loved me aswell'
 

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The rules change slightly once you reach certain points with a woman. After you've fvcked and have been seeing each other for two or three months, saying "I love you" back will INCREASE her interest in you because showing some vulnerability builds comfort between two people. Just don't say it too often.

But if you really don't want to say it back, you can usually just lean in for a kiss as a responce without hurting her feelings.
 

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I'll be honest, I don't have a lot of experience with lots of different girls, but: my last gf would use the "I love you..." for lots of different reasons. Usually as a test, or after a fight, or if she just needed reasurrance. It didn't always mean the "I seriously love you forever and we will always be together.." kind of thing.

So, even though I'm inexperienced, I did, occasionally, say "Wow", and kiss her immediately. The words "I love you" mean so many different things. Since we ended up dumping each other I'm a little skeptical of that phrase. Words don't mean sh*t. Actions mean everything.
 

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You can always pull a Han Solo and go "I know".
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How about lookiing at her in the face pause for a while to create some tension then telling her to her face "You should". This makes them feel that they have to work hard to get your approval:crackup:
 

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hahahaa... thats classic.
 

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Well last chick that said that to me I just leaned in and kissed her I think that done more then saying anything to the girl.
 

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I have used;
I love you
I love you too
Cool! I love me too (bad English I know)
I know
Thats sweet
you have good taste
*kiss* (I hope this forum doesn't censor !<155

Though I haven't used this yet I think the best response might be
I love your good taste in men
 

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Run. Run like you have never ran before.

Either that or plant a bit wet one on her lips.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Actually I'm having one of these little problems. I have known this girl for only a week. We are not exclusive but we may as well be (I'm waiting for her to start that convo). Well when I tease her a bit and she teases me back shes then always says "Oh I don't hate you, I love you really!". Well I usually just go "Oh well that's OK then" and give her a kiss or a hug but this can't keep going on. Do you think she is doing it in a joking way or does she really mean it?
 

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She's doing it to hit your insecurities, her way of controlling you.. When she teases you, tease her back.. When she says she loves you, tease her by saying I love me too..
 

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asif said:
It didn't always mean the "I seriously love you forever and we will always be together.." kind of thing.
It never means that.
 

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unorthodox said:
She's doing it to hit your insecurities, her way of controlling you.. When she teases you, tease her back.. When she says she loves you, tease her by saying I love me too..
This just happened on msn and she practically forced me to say it! I said I love me to then she was going on about who else so I listed a load of guys from the band we are in, I even said my grandma but she still made me say it to her! In the end I gave up and said "OK I love you...a little bit...for now". HELP!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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