"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Crissco

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For hell of it I just started poking random chicks on facebook because I thought they were hot. Got 21 pokes back so far, then I shoot them an e-mail, most of them I get a hi, nice to meet u..and I take it from there. And some of them I get a who is this, how do i know you...
How should I respond to that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you don't but i think we should get to know each other. My name is Crissco :)
 

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AAAgent said:
you don't but i think we should get to know each other. My name is Crissco :)
Not bad bro, gonna give it a shot..Any other idea too, so I can switch them up
 

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i have limited experience with net game but IRL i know direct is always the best.

nothing more honest and straight forward than "Hi, we don't know each other but i'd like to change that. my name is aaagent."

net game is imo a numbers game. since you already have a conversation going you don't need to do some crazy as$ sh!t to get her to respond.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've had a crush on you for years.
how about you gimmie yo digits, lemmie clap dem buns.
..heh heh
 

AAAgent

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Forever alone :(
 

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just go with some blunt honest ****..i knew you when i added you and got poked on facebook 3 days ago..
 

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AAAgent said:
i have limited experience with net game but IRL i know direct is always the best.

nothing more honest and straight forward than "Hi, we don't know each other but i'd like to change that. my name is aaagent."

net game is imo a numbers game. since you already have a conversation going you don't need to do some crazy as$ sh!t to get her to respond.
I like that one ill give it a shot

just go with some blunt honest ****..i knew you when i added you and got poked on facebook 3 days ago..
Then where the hell do I go from there?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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