"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Responding to Flattery from a Plate

wakingup

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Just curious how an "alpha" responds to flattery. For instance, if a girl tells you "you're so nice and sweet how did I ever get so lucky" or "you make me so happy" how do you respond in a masculine way? My inclination is to react with an "aww thats so great" but I have a feeling that is not the sexiest answer or response. Please provide your suggestions.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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I think I simple thank you might be in order or maybe I bet you tell that to all of the guys? Done with a smile.
 

Atom Smasher

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Yeah, "Aaw that's so great" wouldn't be a powerful response. It's too emotional.

I usually just say "Thank you" in a matter-of-fact way, with a small smile or half-smile. Also a brief look directly in the eyes then break. For me at least, this conveys that I'm used to being complimented but I appreciate hers.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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