"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Respecting women vs respecting men

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Whats up dudes.

Anyways I had a party tonight and some chicks left without thanking me the host.

It pisses me off when people do that because I put my ass on the line fpr having a party (my parents do as well because they are liable if they let underage people drink in their house)
so the least people can do is thank someone for letting them into their home. I ALWAYS make sure to thank the host and their parents if their home.

Anyways it got me thinking as sexist as it sounds do you guys hold women to the same standards as men? Because im starting to lose respect for the vast majority of women as i start to hold them to the same standards as respect as I would with my bros
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Most women don't care how things are done. They just want to see the end product and believe "it just happened".

It's all part of their selfish, ungrateful, cold nature.
 

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Most women don't care how things are done. They just want to see the end product and believe "it just happened".

It's all part of their selfish, ungrateful, cold nature.
This is the kind of thinking ive been trying to avoid. But honestly since Ive started to hangout with more "mature" women im find most of them (their are a lot of women I respect) are just so hard to respect
 

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This is the kind of thinking ive been trying to avoid. But honestly since Ive started to hangout with more "mature" women im find most of them (their are a lot of women I respect) are just so hard to respect
The more respect you have for women.. the less respect they will have for you.

Remember that women generally don't respect women either.. nore do they respect themselves. They are wired to seek physical and emotional security.. not self-respect. So a man who respects women is a real faggot.

Even gay men don't respect women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Payaso

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The more respect you have for women.. the less respect they will have for you.

Remember that women generally don't respect women either.. nore do they respect themselves. They are wired to seek physical and emotional security.. not self-respect. So a man who respects women is a real faggot.
You forgot financial security.
 

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That would fall under the "physical security" umbrella.

Money allows you to BUY your safety by living in better neighborhoods and eating better food.
More or less.
 

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It pisses me off when people do that because I put my ass on the line fpr having a party (my parents do as well because they are liable if they let underage people drink in their house)
Okay let's get this straight. You're b*tchin' about immature and irresponsible people not thanking you for letting them indulge in immature and irresponsible behavior in your home for which your parents could be held civilly and criminally liable for? Really.

so the least people can do is thank someone for letting them into their home. I ALWAYS make sure to thank the host and their parents if their home.


You're assuming that everybody was raised with the same set morals, values, and etiquette that you were. Stop trippin' dude. As a man, it's your responsibility to put b*tches up on game. Also, a word to the wise. If you love your parents, like where you live, and your quality of life, don't allow underage drinking in your home. You're responsible for those muthaf*ckas.

Anyways it got me thinking as sexist as it sounds do you guys hold women to the same standards as men? Because im starting to lose respect for the vast majority of women as i start to hold them to the same standards as respect as I would with my bros
 

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21st society (West) is basically a giant beta bux who failed a massive sh1t test and now he's got a disobedient, malfunctioning woman-child in his hands and doesn't know what to do with it. He'll keep spoiling her in hopes that she'll get satisfied, but she's never satisfied.

It's in female nature to test the boundaries of how insane/irrational she can be before a dominant male puts her in her place.

In the times when resources were scarce, women didn't dare **** test too severely out of fear that she'd scare off a good provider. Why would a man who makes a good living put up with her bullsh1t when there's a prettier, more reasonable woman down the street?

Back in the 30's when the Depression happened and everyone was starving and barely employed, I'll bet you there were about 5 sh1t tests delivered in total in the US.

Only a limited number deserve my respect while the rest are treated as children. Hell, even the ones I respect need to be treated as children at times, however that is just in their wiring.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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21st society (West) is basically a giant beta bux who failed a massive sh1t test and now he's got a disobedient, malfunctioning woman-child in his hands and doesn't know what to do with it. He'll keep spoiling her in hopes that she'll get satisfied, but she's never satisfied.

It's in female nature to test the boundaries of how insane/irrational she can be before a dominant male puts her in her place.

In the times when resources were scarce, women didn't dare **** test too severely out of fear that she'd scare off a good provider. Why would a man who makes a good living put up with her bullsh1t when there's a prettier, more reasonable woman down the street?

Back in the 30's when the Depression happened and everyone was starving and barely employed, I'll bet you there were about 5 sh1t tests delivered in total in the US.

Only a limited number deserve my respect while the rest are treated as children. Hell, even the ones I respect need to be treated as children at times, however that is just in their wiring.
Once men set themselves FREE and stop with all the pandering.. they will experience both sexual success and feel like dominant masculine men.

But most men are too needy, emotionally frail and concerned with their "image" to go down this road. SO.. they will continue to get used, abused, disrespected and run over by women. Most men today act like cannon fodder trained dogs:

 

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When we first meet, Men have my respect by default, but it can be lost through their actions.

When we first meet, Women have none of my respect by default, and it must be gained through their actions.
 

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Anyways it got me thinking as sexist as it sounds do you guys hold women to the same standards as men? Because im starting to lose respect for the vast majority of women as i start to hold them to the same standards as respect as I would with my bros
You are falling into the propaganda society in our days tries to teach you. You should never respect women the same as your bros. NEVER
It's like a wolf is going to respect the deer as his fellow wolves. It's impossible.
 

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Once men set themselves FREE and stop with all the pandering.. they will experience both sexual success and feel like dominant masculine men.

But most men are too needy, emotionally frail and concerned with their "image" to go down this road. SO.. they will continue to get used, abused, disrespected and run over by women. Most men today act like cannon fodder trained dogs:

I've seen lots of videos like this but this one. Wow. This is so messed up.
 

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21st society (West) is basically a giant beta bux who failed a massive sh1t test and now he's got a disobedient, malfunctioning woman-child in his hands and doesn't know what to do with it. He'll keep spoiling her in hopes that she'll get satisfied, but she's never satisfied.

It's in female nature to test the boundaries of how insane/irrational she can be before a dominant male puts her in her place.

In the times when resources were scarce, women didn't dare **** test too severely out of fear that she'd scare off a good provider. Why would a man who makes a good living put up with her bullsh1t when there's a prettier, more reasonable woman down the street?

Back in the 30's when the Depression happened and everyone was starving and barely employed, I'll bet you there were about 5 sh1t tests delivered in total in the US.

Only a limited number deserve my respect while the rest are treated as children. Hell, even the ones I respect need to be treated as children at times, however that is just in their wiring.
OlympicTim, I know and understand where you are coming from. You throw a great party, your friends thank you for inviting them over, maybe some other guys as well but the other chicks start flocking out because there heading elsewhere or it's the end, whatever.....they probabbly didn't even acknowledge your presence when they left with their female friends....THATS THE UNFORTUNATE BEHAVIOR OF MOST YOUNG WOMEN TODAY (25 and under).

THEY ONLY CARE FOR WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THEM AND HOW YOU MAKE THEM FEEL...IF YOU'RE NOT THAT, THEY SEE YOU AS "DISPOSABLE."

Now, that being said you and I know that if we get invited to a party before I leave I'm gonna thank the host, say goodbye to friends and leave like the gentleman that I am. NEVER EVER HOLD WOMAN TO THE SAME STANDARDS OF A MAN, EVER.

WHY WOULD YOU CARE ABOUT SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU?

Me and my friend we're invited to a Halloween Eve house party last week and it was mostly girls in the early to mid 20's. Had a good time, talked to a lot of cool guys and the host's girlfriend for a few. Some hot chicks but nothing to get excited about. I just wanted to have a good time. When it was time to leave (had to go to a rooftop crawl in the city), I said my goodbyes to everyone in my circle and new acquaintances. Do you think I said goodbye to every other female that I had no interest in? NO, because I had no interest in them...that's a waste of my time.

I agree with all the posts above. Respect is key. WOMEN MUST EARN YOUR RESPECT, NO EXCEPTIONS. You obviously have more "quality" traits that all these "girls" lack. That makes you the prize, the standard. Once you get this mindset down you'll be able to weed out and pay no mind to the crap out there...
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- Kingbeef
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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