Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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mrpickles666

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I agreed to a date for her to confirm. I think that makes me look weak and feminine in itself( even though she said she'd do that the last date). When she sorta flaked the day of, I responded "Didn't think you were coming. Already made plans." I think it made me look unworthy and like I get dumped on a lot and it lowered her respect of me and took away my dignity. I should have assumed we were on and never agreed to confirm. It made me look weak and submissive to her to do that too.

Can I at least get my respect and dignity back?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Isn't this your thousandths thread on the exact same topic?

Here's how to get your respect and dignity back, stop posting the same nonsense about the same girl and find someone else.
 
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EvilSpirit22

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I guess I read a similar thread somewhere.


You want your dignity back? Forget about her. Stop posting multiple threads about her and giving her too much importance in your life. You are coming from a scarcity mental state. And I bet this is the only girl that you currently have in your life.


You cannot mend a broken glass. So buy a new glass. But seriously speaking I don't think you did anything wrong by saying oh I made other plans because it made you look like a busy man who always has some **** to do and is not hung up on girls for his pleasure.


But what you did wrong and are still doing wrong is that you are OVER THINKING about this situation. What you should be doing is going out with your friends and just enjoying your ****ing life.


Go No contact with the girl and Get some new girls.
 
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EvilSpirit22 said:
But seriously speaking I don't think you did anything wrong by saying oh I made other plans because it made you look like a busy man who always has some **** to do and is not hung up on girls for his pleasure.
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It's not that I said I made other plans. It's that I said "DIDN'T THINK YOU WERE COMING" first. :nono: the thought of that makes me cringe so hard. i wouldn't feel as bad if I didn't say that
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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