"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Respect Question

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Precursor

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Does anyone else notice this? Im a junior in highschool (age16).

Ok it goes like this (applies only to male buddies)

People whom you ignore or don't spend much time talking to have more respect for you while people you know and hang out with do not

I'm not saying this is true but i noticed that it occurs around me a lot. people i barely know go out of there way to say "hi" or "whatsup" even though my response gives a "i do'nt really want to talk to you right now" atttitude.

on the other hand, some close friends seem to try and walk over me all the time. anyone else notice a similar trend??

it doesn't matter cause i will remember that
i'm confident/****y/funny
and i'm a young DJ that will always be learning.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sexy_kuta

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dont let them walk over u simple is that
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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sup precursor.

don't listen to the idiots who try telling you what to do... half of the high school people here are brainwashed people with clichéd responses.

i say this because you never asked what to do... and they told you how to fix "it".

and half of the high school kids here are delusional... they can't see a similar trend to what you said... because they really don't have any friends.

as for me... i notice that a lot too. i think it's because people's comfortability with each other.

the more comfortable they are (pretty much based on if whether or not they can beat your ass), the more they feel relaxed to act that way. and vise-versa.
 
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It's because those how don't know you,don't know your flaws to them you're a god, to your friends you're an average joe who can be walked on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DrDiesel07

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Listen to l'Arcangelo...its all about comfort level....people you dont know arent going to randomly say **** to u....would u....male friends tend to rip on each other all the time....its what guys do with their friends....rip right back at them....everyone should be able to take it as well as they dish it out...i mean dont go crazy or anything...but teasing and messing around are fun...try not to look at it as "walking all over u" more expressing their friendship
 
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Ya I noticed that and I took a stand and if my friends disrespect I guy em a good knocking around. lol they know not to disrespect me.
 
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