Respect me or GTFO

[slickaz]

Yesterday was a day of stresses for me.
Im moving countries, jobs and cities.
my current landlord is a certified Ahole
my friends here are giving me a hard time for leaving,
and i have a ton of work that needs to be done before i leave.

so when i decided to take some time of and go grab a coffee, i thought ok the next 2 hours its all about me im not gonna stress just kick it and grab a coffee then hit the gym a little later.

then i hear the knock on the door. This chic ive been seeing turns up at my place to say hi. so i let her in and explain that im about to go grab a drink.
she can join me if she wants.

anyway bar the begining formalities, she was being a class A biarch. i overlooked it at first.
then we were about to leave and she said how about you take me for lunch. and it was in a very demanding voice.
i fired back with "hahahaha..does it look like i have Salvation Army bannered on my forehead? turn up here anytime unnanounced and we'll give you free food and shelter"

she hits me with "this is BS, i hate how you're treating me, i need room to breathe, you're suffocating me right now! i need a long break! you need to know how to treat me and stop acting like you got me."and the rest of it was garbage talk.
i dunno what happened but smtn triggered of a very bad reactionin me and i basically said
"im a man, im successful im hard working, i look good and im blessed, im the king of my fkn world.. you need to respect me for when you speak or you can get the fk out my house, there is no room is b!tchassness in my life...you dont need a break you just need to GO.."

she walked to the door and stood there like i was gonna beg for forgiveness..
so i said
"well??? two options..you say sorry and change ur act..or dont just stand there and try to look like furniture, get going.."

she went mad and walked out slamming the door behind her.
she also kicked my car on her way out..i dont really care anymore coz my cars been sold now, just waiting for the guy to come pick it up..

but damn! honestly..that felt so so good! lol..
long time ive felt like this particular plate has been getting too serious about us, ive put the other plates out due to me moving. this one has stuck around.and she just tries to control me too much since i told her im leaving.. aslways saying stupid sh!t like..
"u make too much money, you should buy me this..or buy me that"
or
"you need to leave a copy of your credit card with me when u go and just top it up all the time"

i usually respond with a smirk and "i dont see a ring on my finger...so no"

anyway this was the last straw..so yeh..i dunno.

advice?

 

[jdon23]

You did the right thing man!! Mad respect. She was treating you unfairly, and impeding on your life. You *may* have come off as a little arrogant with the king of my world thing and giving her an ultimatum.. but she sounds like a very demanding person and not worthy of your time.

 

[everywomanshero]

Sounds like you're relieved to have gotten rid of her so she won't be holding you back anymore.

 

[randalll]

was she disprespecting you though or just making a lighthearted joke when she told you to leave your credit card behind?

also, how well do you know her?

i wouldn't class that as disrespect tbh. i let a girl disrespect me about a year ago (learnt from my mistake since then!), and she did it in a much more subtle way, trying to get things from me my being manipulative and sneaky.

id have just laughed that off tbh.. but if i found her taking something she would have been out of the door

 

[daygameguy]

She would have caused troubles anyway in the long run.

Better to put her in her place. No room for b1tchyness.

And anyway, you are going to Aussie land! lol have fun there

 

[slickaz]

na man, this chic was serious.
and to be honest, im slick when it comes to women, but without the BS ill agree i treated her better than i treated the other girls. hence why ive kept her and let the others go.. its not oneitis i just like her company.
but i overlooked all the sneaky stfuf she was doing.
she'd smile n ask for stuff and SOMETIMES (RARELY) when it didnt really damage my bank account even slightly id end up gettinit for her.
like one time we walked past a designer shop and there was this long summer dress and she was like WOW!i want that dress baby!!!..i honestly thought she'd look amazing in it..so i got it for her after tellin her to try it for me at the store without any underwear..she did..so i got it for her..she wears it around me alot coz she knows she looks hot in it.

but then one time she asked for me a gucci phone. n i was like ok..i could get that for you easy..but this has gotta stop..i didnt buy it for her..
anyway the credit card..she was sneaky serious..coz she kept mentioning it...to a point where i got annoyed with it..

she was never like this..she's always been miss independant..but the moment i told her im moving to Sydney..shes been out to get as much as possible.

first couple times she blamed it on her periods..then it was she's gonna miss me..now she dont even got a reason.lol...

i realize i may have been a little rash but damit man i snapped. especially because i dont like being talked down to or patronized on...
ive also noticed she tries to get me to apologize alot for the stupidest stuff.

i guess she feels like "crap ive invested in this, now he's going.."
but we never had anything exclusive...she knew i was sleepin with atleast one other chic..so suddenly its her being controlling..so essentially what i was getting was, all the cons of being in a relationship and none of the pros.lol


PS: the reason i said what i did when i was mad was alot of the times when we're together and i do something that she doesnt agree to or say smtn, she'd be like "oh! men! you are all so useless!" or smtn like that..that sh!ts just annoyin..and it gets to me..lol..like im some inferior being..fkn hell man is the reason we are as developed as we are..i keep tellin her "you know that pad you wear when ur periods visit?..yeh that was made by a man too.."
always stating a different fact..lol that usually shuts them women up..

 

[Aragon034]

Respect.

i've had it out with some women like this, especiaily bytchs who think they're princesses who think they're hot stuff.

i recall one telling me when i mentioned i got a new phone (the pearl when it was just out), that "She needs a new phone, hers right now is too ghetto for a princess." and insinuated i should buy it for her. I told her to find some chump to pay cuz i'm not her ATM.

so High Respect to you for this. and yes, it feels awesome to kick these bytches off their pedestal.