I was reading one of @Atom Smasher posts from back in May of this year (May 22) where he said he went 12 months not dating women but trained himself to feel superior to them and to call them out on disrespect and judge their words and behavior and require them to meet his standards,then after the 12 months was over with he dated again with a whole new outlook.I recently broke up with a woman and I did not always call her out on disrespect.I should have always called her out because I noticed that when I did her attitude changed noticeably.I do not know if I will go 12 months celibate like Atom did but I started requiring respect yesterday and have already noticed things changing.If they disrespect me they are out no if's and's or but's about it.Everything stands or falls with respect and disrespect must be called out immediately.So I am embarking on this little experiment and will see how it goes.I would like to ask @Atom Smasher what made you decide on 12 months ? was it just to "deprogram" completely ?
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Think this can and probably should happen naturally, and one is 'learning game', 'unplugging', 'swallowing the red pill', or whatever. One of the principal lessons I have learned over the last few years is definitely tolerating other people's sh!t much less. That's not just women, but everyone; friends, family, colleagues.
You don't (necessarily) have to become celibate in order abide by your personal standards. Work out what they are, what you will and won't tolerate, what sanctions will be in place when your standards are compromised, and stick to it. No emotion, no negotiation. Just action and reaction. Simple.
You don't (necessarily) have to become celibate in order abide by your personal standards. Work out what they are, what you will and won't tolerate, what sanctions will be in place when your standards are compromised, and stick to it. No emotion, no negotiation. Just action and reaction. Simple.
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Since I finally realized that I have fully unplugged recently, I haven’t really approached a woman. Sure, talked some. Interacted a little. I already have one that is for sex and she’s completely fine with it.
I don’t see her as much as before. Not because she is tapering off but because it’s not as important for some reason.
I don’t think it’s a bad idea at all to unplug fully first. Maybe it’s the best call you can make.
The world is so different now. I realized that none of this is really about women. I can’t really define it so I won’t try. Getting laid is not that tough at all. To form your life around getting women?
You don’t have to do all that game system stuff now when you realize that you are fully unplugged and yourself.
It could be a year is just right to find your masculine traits that were shoved deep down, do to the feminine imperative programming.
There is a subtle calmness in it. I don’t feel the energy, misplaced energy, flowing around all charged up in my body.
Perhaps this is what is meant by “being comfortable in your own skin”.
The hard part is finally realizing that most people are on here still, in part or in whole, still suffering due to not being fully unplugged. This includes one’s own self.
When you finally feel it is gone. Inside. You now are in a unique position of having this void. Almost like a blank piece of paper. Your are poised with pen in hand to write on the page...but you don’t know what the hell to write. You now have a clean slate in a new paradigm where nothing you knew before applies. Not even your favorite PUA game system and think.
I don’t see her as much as before. Not because she is tapering off but because it’s not as important for some reason.
I don’t think it’s a bad idea at all to unplug fully first. Maybe it’s the best call you can make.
The world is so different now. I realized that none of this is really about women. I can’t really define it so I won’t try. Getting laid is not that tough at all. To form your life around getting women?
You don’t have to do all that game system stuff now when you realize that you are fully unplugged and yourself.
It could be a year is just right to find your masculine traits that were shoved deep down, do to the feminine imperative programming.
There is a subtle calmness in it. I don’t feel the energy, misplaced energy, flowing around all charged up in my body.
Perhaps this is what is meant by “being comfortable in your own skin”.
The hard part is finally realizing that most people are on here still, in part or in whole, still suffering due to not being fully unplugged. This includes one’s own self.
When you finally feel it is gone. Inside. You now are in a unique position of having this void. Almost like a blank piece of paper. Your are poised with pen in hand to write on the page...but you don’t know what the hell to write. You now have a clean slate in a new paradigm where nothing you knew before applies. Not even your favorite PUA game system and think.
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Now, if some buddy’s came up to me and said, “Hey, let’s go bird dog some chicks and bang some beaver.”
I would just look at them with a questioning look. I absolutely would go but I would drift off from them and just interact with people. Go chat with the bar tender a little. Bump into some people and talk about most anything. I would be really appreciative if the place made really good coffee.
I’m absolutely certain women would naturally find their way to me and talk to me now.
I would just look at them with a questioning look. I absolutely would go but I would drift off from them and just interact with people. Go chat with the bar tender a little. Bump into some people and talk about most anything. I would be really appreciative if the place made really good coffee.
I’m absolutely certain women would naturally find their way to me and talk to me now.
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Atom smasher may just be on to something Red Legg.
I don’t mean to post so many in a row but you got me to thinking Red Legg.
What if...the idea of being disrespectful to you never enters her mind? What if..she is on her best behavior from the start? If she instinctively knows that she’s on new ground with you...who said any of these rules on here even apply?
Let say she acts up a little in a serious way. Do you know what being “dismissive” does to her? Or even anyone. It nullifies their existence. It makes them nothing, all the way down deep at the core. You can’t be plugged in, in any way to pull it off. She will bust you and loose interest. “Loser/poser” flashes in her head and it’s over.
Spaz taught me that one. He’s mentioned it here in the forums several times. But it’s a concept that takes a total disconnect by you. An absolute, if there is such a thing as an “absolute”
When a woman sees herself as”high value” and every part of your fiiber, body language, persona , everything, dismisses her out right for acting up, She KNOWS you are not in the matrix. Complete demonstration by you collapses her frame.
If you think about it...it can be rather evil in some respects. There are no words to say and no facial expressions to use.
If you are plugged in, in any way, it’s useless to you. And maybe that’s good that some do stay plugged in for a while longer. They don’t deserve it yet.
I don’t mean to post so many in a row but you got me to thinking Red Legg.
What if...the idea of being disrespectful to you never enters her mind? What if..she is on her best behavior from the start? If she instinctively knows that she’s on new ground with you...who said any of these rules on here even apply?
Let say she acts up a little in a serious way. Do you know what being “dismissive” does to her? Or even anyone. It nullifies their existence. It makes them nothing, all the way down deep at the core. You can’t be plugged in, in any way to pull it off. She will bust you and loose interest. “Loser/poser” flashes in her head and it’s over.
Spaz taught me that one. He’s mentioned it here in the forums several times. But it’s a concept that takes a total disconnect by you. An absolute, if there is such a thing as an “absolute”
When a woman sees herself as”high value” and every part of your fiiber, body language, persona , everything, dismisses her out right for acting up, She KNOWS you are not in the matrix. Complete demonstration by you collapses her frame.
If you think about it...it can be rather evil in some respects. There are no words to say and no facial expressions to use.
If you are plugged in, in any way, it’s useless to you. And maybe that’s good that some do stay plugged in for a while longer. They don’t deserve it yet.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
I disagree and think the idea of "they don't deserve it yet is idiotic" Your "unplugged" is not everybody's definition of unplugged it is not universal,before I swallowed the red pill I was plugged in (for 45) years and had much more success than unplugged men in virtually every area of life (and still do ) ......Red pill = results may vary.
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So you think angry, pissed off, frustrated men should be given power to wreck women in retaliatory events?
You’re right. We don’t agree.
They are playing in their universe. And you think men have the right to go punish them. Nice.
More Jedi Knight silliness from @Ranger.....who apparently likes to put words in peoples mouths..