"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just was reading a fighting post and I was curious how far is too far?

I'm a big, older looking muscular guy for my age and I've won most of the fights in my life.

I was raised to be the bigger man and laugh at the morons who start bullshyt, but out at parties when some lil biotch jacks your shoulder with his, who's the bigger biotch for not beating him into a pulp?

It's near impossible for me to start the fight and I can't figure out why.

I left being a player a while ago to focus more on school and I think it's a major problem with confidence for not keeping the social status I used to uphold.

Bunch of worthless biotching or can I start doing something for improvement?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There is still no need to fight. If some punk hits your shoulder with him, why give in to him and give him a fight, just use your shoulder to floor him.
 

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Originally posted by JSH
There is still no need to fight.
I agree with this part, not the rest.

Yeah, I've had some little punk trying to start **** with me by doing that shoulder thing at a party before. It was funny though, cause he deliberatly bumped me in the shoulder, I didnt move an inch and he almost fell over.

It was funny as hell.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
I agree with this part, not the rest.

Yeah, I've had some little punk trying to start **** with me by doing that shoulder thing at a party before. It was funny though, cause he deliberatly bumped me in the shoulder, I didnt move an inch and he almost fell over.

It was funny as hell.
LOL, thats great, yeah I am a big guy too, and small guys like to start ****, cause when they are drunk they lose judgement, and plus if they fight huge guy they have almost nothing to lose. If they lose the fight, then everyone expected them to get beat so its not that big of a deal and some people may think the bigger guy is a jerk for fighting someone smaller. If they win they get all the praise of kicking a big guy's ass. If the fight gets broken up before anythign really goes down, then people think their tough and that maybe the bigger guy is a ***** because the big guy didnt beat the little guy's ass quicker. Plus the little guy can always act like he wish the fight would have never been broken up, when in fact he was probly really scared.

So little guys always try to make a name for themselves by fighting bigger guys.
 

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Whoever actively starts a fight usually does not look like a champ, regardless of the result.

There isn't a big need to fight unless it's in defense of you and the things you stand for.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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