Resources

[CuddleJunkie]

Hey guys, day after day I feel more energetic and I really want to go on a cold-approach spree.The problem is, when I started looking into this whole manosphere thing, I was more attracted by the theoritical/political side of it, so I've been reading Rollo, Jack Donovan, Chateau... you know what I mean, more theory than anything else, probably my formation has something to do with this lol.

So anyhow, I've found some websites and books that deal specifically with game, but I don't know the ones that are good, the ones that are scams...And who better to ask than the Don Juans of SoSuave?
So please, share with me your top resources about game.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

The London Daygame model changed my life. Daniel Blake's 'same day lay' videos are great examples of the LD system.

All of the info for this system can be found for free on Youtube.

Tom Torrero's 'How To Flirt With Women' is a useful book on conversational spikes, and can be found cheaply on Amazon. I also like the (rather all en-composing) book 'Magic Bullets' which is the contemporary progression of the Mystery Method. I have learnt a lot from these sources.

As you seem to know, there are two sides to coin: the red-pill (reality, understanding, adaptation), and the game (fantasy, manipulation, seduction). The best disposition is to have one foot in each IMO.

thank you very much deesade, I will study these.

Yeah, while I recognize the superiority of inner game, I don't see why is there such an hostility to external game. Also, succes with game should increase your confidence and your inner game. Thanks again mate.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

That freedom is powerful.

This. I get why a lot of people dislike PUA, in the end is putting women as our final goal. Don Juans don't like it, and it's good. But in the end, being a Don Juan is about being free, about having options, about having skills that improve your life. So why should we not dedicate effort and time to learn game?
Starting Strength is about becoming the strongest version of yourself, but a lot of people use the system to get a start into bodybuilding, or to get a moderate level of strength, and others to take strength training seriously. PUA is about fukin women left and right, but you can use it to get a start into seducing them as you see fit, or to get a moderate level of succes, and, of course, you can dedicate all of your life to it.
I mean, it's a skill like any else, the use we do of it is up to us.

 

[Bingo-Player]

my biggest resource is other men and there experiences with women

women are so socially adept because they talk to each other about there relationships and emotions in so much detail if men could do the same we could level the playing field

i also learn a lot of stuff on my feet because theres no better feeling in the world than simply winging it

 

[SamTheHobit]

I personally think that most of the so-called PUA gurus are looking to take money from my pocket and put it into theirs. The more complicated they make it, the better the chance that they'll further their bankroll.

For me it's best to just simplify things. Go out and DO IT.

Practice.

At end of the dsy, making eye contact...smiling...saying "hi" are, in my opinion, the most effective tools for attracting women.

You are enough. No wingman or lifecoach needed.

Keep it simple.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

I personally think that most of the so-called PUA gurus are looking to take money from my pocket and put it into theirs. The more complicated they make it, the better the chance that they'll further their bankroll.

For me it's best to just simplify things. Go out and JUST DO IT.

Yes it's good to read and absorb, but at the end of the day, making eye contact...smiling...saying "hi" are, in my opinion, the most effective tools for attracting women.

In my mind guys are looking for the secret answer...the magic formula...shortcuts...they're depending on someone else for all the answers...

You are enough. No wingman or lifecoach is needed.

Go out...fail...learn...it's the only way.

I'm doing what you say in social circles, and I'm happy because I'm discovering I am much more social than I thought.
But cold approaches...man, that scares me ****less haha, that's why I'm looking for this stuff. In a way is like making it like a game you are playing "hey let's see if this stuff works". At least that's my plan to get used to cold approaching.

 

[Colossus]

"Game" is mostly overstated. Like said above it i largely a numbers game and a question of experience.

That said, Winning with Women is pretty good. Minimal theory, tons of time-tested practical advice.

(Shameless plug, I wrote it )

Actually I wrote it more for the game-naive guy, but if you are new to meeting and dating women (successfully) then I think it could benefit you. I mostly just compiled everything I learned from my 10+ year tenure on SoSuave and my own vast dating experiences. I didn't like the guides out there as they tend to be all about getting laid or esoteric socio-political theory.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

"Game" is mostly overstated. Like said above it i largely a numbers game and a question of experience.

That said, Winning with Women is pretty good. Minimal theory, tons of time-tested practical advice.

(Shameless plug, I wrote it )

Actually I wrote it more for the game-naive guy, but if you are new to meeting and dating women (successfully) then I think it could benefit you. I mostly just compiled everything I learned from my 10+ year tenure on SoSuave and my own vast dating experiences. I didn't like the guides out there as they tend to be all about getting laid or esoteric socio-political theory.

Will look into it, Colossus thanks. A game manual by a Don Juan is good in my book.

 

[AttackFormation]

Are there any guides you guys know of that focus on having fun? ie. the end point of all the instruction is to give you a positive and fun mindset and for that to translate into your interactions and that's the functional end of the guide.

 

[fastlife]

If you haven't read The Book of Pook, it's definitely worth the read.

Haven't bought any of his products and don't plan to, but a lot of Julien Blanc's free stuff on youtube is pretty spot on regarding inner-game and practical non-forumula-based guidelines for cold approach. But it really comes down to finding someone that fits your natural personality style; and realizing that your natural personality style isn't static and is versatile enough to incorporate game.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

If you haven't read The Book of Pook, it's definitely worth the read.

Haven't bought any of his products and don't plan to, but a lot of Julien Blanc's free stuff on youtube is pretty spot on regarding inner-game and practical non-forumula-based guidelines for cold approach. But it really comes down to finding someone that fits your natural personality style; and realizing that your natural personality style isn't static and is versatile enough to incorporate game.

I did, it was an amazing experience. I wish Pook would still be posting somewhere. Oh well.
I will look that Julien guy, thanks fastlife