"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Requesting a Ban on Disoneguy

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Matlm

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this is what made the Athenians such a great city-state. Once a year they would cast the most unpopular people out. It kept politicans virtious and people nice.
 

NeXuS

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Originally posted by Matlm:
this is what made the Athenians such a great city-state. Once a year they would cast the most unpopular people out. It kept politicans virtious and people nice.
Until, of course, the government became totally corrupt and unable to accomplish anything as Sparta was seiging them.
 

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Even tho Sparta captured athens, the athenian way of life leaked into Sparta. The Spartans became like those they had captured in time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CaptainSlinky

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Originally posted by Gaming111:
Anyway, back to the topic... Don't tell me this isn't deserving a ban in and of itself. It's somewhat annoying when we get replies that are flames, but at least they don't clog up the forums quite as much. An entire topic is really pushing it.

After that topic, this is a no-brainer for the mods.
 

xanderbaz

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Yeah,
kick his ass outta here. He flames too much.
 

Aiken_Drum

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Yeah, and he's gonna be back in 60 seconds. Or gone, hehe.
Anyway, lousy jokes aside, I think it's kinda funny to have stupid treads, they spice up life a little. Or maybe it's because it's 6:33 am and I need some sleep after going out with the guys.

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"In doing good, avoid notoriety; in doing evil, avoid self-awareness" Duncan Idaho, Mentat (Dune).

"I can imagine a perfect world, a world without hate, a world without war. Then I can imagine us attacking that world
because they'd never expect it." --Jack Handey's "Deep Thoughts"
 

TheG02

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I met up with Disoneguy once or twice. I don't like him either. Can you really ban somebody though? If you can, I say he is the one that should be.

I know Disoneguy who licked *** out of condoms for a living!!!

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This G, I'm out. Holla back!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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UltimateScoundrel

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I agree, ban the bastard

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Sarcastic Sardonic Irreverent Impertinent Exasperating Disrespectful and Charming. This is the way of the scoundrel
 

future marine

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i wouldnt even worry about it. Disonguy hasnt posted in a couple of weeks

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pain is weakness leaving the body

a good offensie is better than than the best defensive
 

Big N

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No, now hes trying to defend the don juan site in its war against the invading girls. He is an embarassment to the site.
 
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