Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Request to WBA: How do you warm up for squats?

spesmilitis

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At first I used to be hesitant to do squat warm ups. I remember you mentioned you take about 30 minutes to warm up for squats. I was like 'I spend so much energy doing squats, if I have to save as much energy as I can'. Well, through out the my last several squat workouts, each time I added some mobility/dynamic stretch or cardio because I felt like they would give me a smoother squat. Low and behold, my warmup is now about 30 minutes.

Now that I accept the fact that warming up is necessary to squat good, I want to know how to warm up correctly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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stinkyape

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I usually spend 30/40mins boxing/kicking a heavy bag when I get to the gym - That includes dynamic strectching (legs) and static stretches (upper body). Gets me nice and limber throughout my whole body, but I don't go too hard if I'm going to be lifting weights - Don't want to wear myself out. After that if I'm doing squats I'll do one quick set (12 to 20 reps) without any weight (no bar), then just the bar for another quick set, and then perhaps one set with 60kgs (~125lb or something for you backwards types who are stuck in the past :p ). Then I move onto actual weights... So yeah, what I do is spend plenty of time warming up doing other stuff that I enjoy - And it works good. No leg injuries from squats, ever. I did tweak my back the other week though, but nothing serious! Just too much weight!!
 

Warboss Alex

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Just like in the IA article but I do a bunch more with the lighter sets (10 reps or so) but I do have a bad knee which needs a lot of loosening up. I also do quad and hamstring stretches between all sets, warmups included.
 
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