"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Request to WBA: How do you warm up for squats?

spesmilitis

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 3, 2006
Messages
1,490
Reaction score
6
At first I used to be hesitant to do squat warm ups. I remember you mentioned you take about 30 minutes to warm up for squats. I was like 'I spend so much energy doing squats, if I have to save as much energy as I can'. Well, through out the my last several squat workouts, each time I added some mobility/dynamic stretch or cardio because I felt like they would give me a smoother squat. Low and behold, my warmup is now about 30 minutes.

Now that I accept the fact that warming up is necessary to squat good, I want to know how to warm up correctly.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

stinkyape

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2003
Messages
68
Reaction score
0
Location
London
I usually spend 30/40mins boxing/kicking a heavy bag when I get to the gym - That includes dynamic strectching (legs) and static stretches (upper body). Gets me nice and limber throughout my whole body, but I don't go too hard if I'm going to be lifting weights - Don't want to wear myself out. After that if I'm doing squats I'll do one quick set (12 to 20 reps) without any weight (no bar), then just the bar for another quick set, and then perhaps one set with 60kgs (~125lb or something for you backwards types who are stuck in the past :p ). Then I move onto actual weights... So yeah, what I do is spend plenty of time warming up doing other stuff that I enjoy - And it works good. No leg injuries from squats, ever. I did tweak my back the other week though, but nothing serious! Just too much weight!!
 

Warboss Alex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2005
Messages
4,113
Reaction score
29
Just like in the IA article but I do a bunch more with the lighter sets (10 reps or so) but I do have a bad knee which needs a lot of loosening up. I also do quad and hamstring stretches between all sets, warmups included.
 
Top