"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I know the mods won't like this thread so if that's the case just delete it.

But I would like to use this thread title to attract people to my latest post in my previous thread.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1614696#post1614696

I really need the advice, this is the one I wanted and I hope to get what I want, at times I feel like I'm the only one on this forum that understands that concept.

I'm at a point where my ex-girlfriend has injected herself into my life to the point of keying my car a few days after slapping me. I slapped her male friend for that. I really wanted this new girl and everything worked out so great.

My other thread title isn't as attention grabbing

Respond here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1614696#post1614696
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She used you as a flesh dildo, she's moved on, and so should you. She may want another go'round in the future,but remember it's just sex-she doesn't want a relationship with you. IF she did, she'd text or something. Mystery calls it FOOLS MATE- in chess, you can win in 3 moves-but your opponent won't let it happen again.
 

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sodbuster said:
She used you as a flesh dildo, she's moved on, and so should you. She may want another go'round in the future,but remember it's just sex-she doesn't want a relationship with you. IF she did, she'd text or something. Mystery calls it FOOLS MATE- in chess, you can win in 3 moves-but your opponent won't let it happen again.

That's what I thought, she said 5 people a day ask for her number and she never gives it out, except for me. . . . .then she ****ed me the first day we hung out. The next time it was better and I ****ed her the next morning to.


wtf
 

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You're coming across very needy and desperate.

You're too desperate to get her. Thats why it wont work and you need to spin plates, focus on others. The concept you speak of is wrong because there is no 'one'. You need to realize that finding the 'one' (who isnt this girl), wont change anything in your life. It wont make you happy like you feel that it will.

Would you care if there was another girl that you were ****ing right now?

If you werent so desperate you wouldnt be freaking out so much.

You want a game plan? First of all stop being so desperate for her. Your goal in life sounds like getting this girl, it shouldnt be. After you get a grip, calm down and realise this girl is just a girl , ask her out on date or to hang out.

Have you asked her out recently?
 

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Ease said:
You're coming across very needy and desperate.

You're too desperate to get her. Thats why it wont work and you need to spin plates, focus on others. The concept you speak of is wrong because there is no 'one'. You need to realize that finding the 'one' (who isnt this girl), wont change anything in your life. It wont make you happy like you feel that it will.

Would you care if there was another girl that you were ****ing right now?

If you werent so desperate you wouldnt be freaking out so much.

You want a game plan? First of all stop being so desperate for her. Your goal in life sounds like getting this girl, it shouldnt be. After you get a grip, calm down and realise this girl is just a girl , ask her out on date or to hang out.

Have you asked her out recently?
I dropped 5 plus plates when I started seeing her. 1 of them I was already ****ing and I was just getting physical with another.

The thing is this girl is clearly sexually skilled, and I like that. And ya she made me happy, this was a special girl that I met. I met her at her workplace and she helped me out A LOT. Then she was excited to see me. The second time she was still excited to see me, then after that she just had a lot on her mind. I guess I'll ask her again in a week?

I asked her: What happened after the second time we hung out?

She said she just had a lot on her mind

I said alright well when you need me for something I'm here.

She said she doesn't like talking to people about stuff

I like that, I said hit me up when you wanna make plans.


So now get at her in a week
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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fcck you dante

You get good advice. You don't like the advice, so you make another thread?

Post what you want to hear, and I'll just copy and paste, ok?
 

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scrouds said:
fcck you dante

You get good advice. You don't like the advice, so you make another thread?

Post what you want to hear, and I'll just copy and paste, ok?
yea fcck you dante... too many b1tches like you on this forum.
 
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