well recently i was extremely drunk and had sex with a girl i had just met in a really sketchy public place. i go to a very small college, and neadless to say word travels fast. i hear a lot of gossip about and i think my reputation (especially with freshman girls) is going downhill very fast. any advice??
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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- Thread starter thebigMac
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Don't have sex with 'stank hos' with big mouths, especially in public places!
Know the company you keep!
Know the company you keep!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
yeah well of course most guys are like yeah, thats awesome blah blah. girl have 2 responses. 1) wow when is it going to be my turn or 2) he is really sketchy i am never going to touch him. im worried there ar more #2s. the bad part is i NEVER do stuff like that, it was the drunkst ive ever been in my life and the girl just kinda jumped me