"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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B0SS MAN

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Can living in the same place every year of your life affect your ability to pull girls if you have a rep fro being notoriously bad at doing so?

I've lived in the same exact house for all 16 years, meaning I went to the same elementary school, middle school, and am now going to the same high school with these people and have tried to bag most of the girls I find worthwhile but no luck. The boundaries for the school basically call for no new people after middle school, and we all know girls talk to one another about their experiences with certain guys.

This year I even tried to start focusing more on the freshman girls, since I never really talked to the younger kids in middle school, but I haven't had any success yet. I might have deeper gaming problems than I think if thats the case but idk. Opinions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well first off, you're situation is no different than millions of other teenagers. There are a ton of people that have gone to the same elementary, middle, and high school with the same kids their entire life.

Secondly, social proof is definitely a big part of high school game. Imo, the best way to counter act this is to just be as social as possible to everyone you see, boys and girls. Pretend like there is no bad rep holding you back. If you truly believe there is a bad rep thats bringin down your game, then it actually will bring down your game.
 
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