"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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reputation points?

thedude4242

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how do you get them and know how many everyobvbody else gets?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Brighty

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You can award other users reputation points, but why's it matter? You should just help people to improve the entire community, not for reputation points.
 

thedude4242

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I seen I had 44 points. I dont care about points I was just wondering if people where agreeing with me to see if I am helping people out.
 

Warrior74

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I was surprised when someone told me I was a top poster because of reputation points. I tend to think it's bull****, but if people like what you have to say...I guess it serves its purpose. Say the truth as you see it and try to help people. Try to keep your mind open and learn. That's more important than any rep points.
 

Joe Stud

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My type of "reputation points" is getting tons of action with HB's, many years younger than me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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