"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

reps and maxs problem

Joined
Jun 23, 2005
Messages
185
Reaction score
0
hey guys

when i am benching, i do 4 sets of 8 reps, but then on my first set, i can do about 140 lb for 8 reps, but on my second set, i can only do 5-6, and it gets smaller and smaller until i can only do about 3 reps for my last set. what should i do?

thanks a lot for the help
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

blackbelt2k

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2007
Messages
467
Reaction score
1
Location
NJ / NYC
how long are you resting between sets? Start off giving your muscles a good 120 second rest between sets for week 1. Week 2 drop to 90 seconds...week 3 drop to 60...which is good...unless your competeing in a sport...you shouldn't need to condition for only 30 second rest periods.
 
Joined
Jun 23, 2005
Messages
185
Reaction score
0
i'm resting about 2-3 minutes between each set, and i can't seem to keep up the number of reps unless i lower the weight,

but when i lower the weight to 130lb, its true that i can do 8 reps for 4 sets, but i wont feel the burn until the 3rd or 4th set.

confused?
 

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
burn means nothing, what routine are you using?
 
Joined
Jun 23, 2005
Messages
185
Reaction score
0
EFFORT said:
burn means nothing, what routine are you using?
i'm doing the 4 excercises per body part, 4 sets per excercise, 8 reps per set routine, with special emphasis on squats, deadlifts and the benchpress.

monday: chest triceps
tuesday: leg/core
thursday:back/biceps
friday: shoulders/core

by feeling no burn i mean that when i do 4 sets of 8 reps on 130lb, i don't feel anything at all until the last set.

but if i increase the weight to 140lb so i can struggle a little from the very beginning, then i am unable to keep up the number of reps in the following sets.

is this a common problem?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
I know you started this thread about rep range problems but thats not actually your problem. I'm assuming your looking to add some muslce? The routine your doing now doesn't give you any recovery time and i'm assuming if your routine is that far from optimal your diet is too. So search for "Where to start" do what i wrote in there, setup your journal etc and start making some real progress.
 
Top