Reprogram an AFC

[LeFrenchie]

I'm kinda new around here... Came out of a LTR sometime ago and I'm a self-confessed AFC and need help reprogramming and sorting my game out.

I have girls giving me clear signals and yet my brain seizes when I go for the approach and I can't think of what to say. And I end up ruing the missed opportunity.

I work in a high profile job where I speak in front of groups of people and deal with high ranking people on a regular basis and I have no problem talking in these situations but for some reason I can't approach women!

I have nearly always relied on girls approaching me and have picked up some hotties this way but I'm tired of being this inert mute when opportunities to approach exist.

So I'm calling on the enlightened DJs on this forum for wisdom. What should I read? What should I do? What should I know?

I workout 5 times a week, am 6'3, 190lbs have a quality wardrobe and regularly get compliments about my looks yet my game is a joke and I have a tendency to contract oneitis!

Help me reprogram my old AFC system!

 

[Htienvu]

At the bottom left of the forum there's a link "the dj bible", click it and start reading. I recommend book of pook and the djbootcamp.

 

[backbreaker]

when you wake up keep hitting F8 and Delete at the same time to get to the Bios screen

 

[bluenorther]

Learn to flirt. The essence of flirting is simply being FRIENDLY. Unlike a business presentation, flirting is a toy, not a tool. Learn to make jokes on yourself. Teach your buddies to makes jokes on you, which shows you can laugh at anything. The PUAs go on about "****y and Funny" but lots of guys have trouble doing this well. They come across as arrogant jackazzes instead. Don Rickles tries to be to be c&f, but you want to choke him to death. Pickupguide-dot-com has good examples for newbies to practice with.
I was trying to get a rise out of my lovely top client, and I had a plan, but needed an opportunity. One of the ladies was trying to flirt with me, being flattering and bs. I told her, I only respond to abuse and execrations. She started flinging that on me instead. One day, I passed the two of them in the hallway and I said to my crush "S__, have you heard the language B__ has been using on me?" S__ confessed that she's heard some of it. I went on "Well, how come YOU never talk to me like that?"
Most women have even less "game" than we do, and S__ had no idea how to respond.
Even if your attempts are feeble they're better than nothing!

 

[Alle_Gory]

Help me reprogram my old AFC system!

Read the DJ Bible (link at the very bottom of page). The articles are awesome. You can also check out the Mature Man section of the site. Post if you're 25 and older otherwise the mods will delete. You can read though.

Welcome to the site.

 

[LeFrenchie]

Thanks for the advice crew. Started on the Book of Pook and DJ Bible and I've resolved to change my AFC ways - I've wasted too much time giving a sh!t about women and insignificant things!

Even did a cold approach at the airport on the way home from a business trip after reading the DJ Bible! Wasn't entirely smooth sailing but I'm glad I did it and couldn't care less it wasn't a complete success!