Report + ?How to be mysterious and keep it that way?

[kixs]

Hi there!

This weekend I met a girl... after some really small chit-chat asked for the # and got it Then she says, call me tomorrow and we can get together ( Sunday )

I know what the bible says about this, but I did call her and we got together for a drink. We where talking for about an hour or so... The talk was fun, I did some kino, not too much and only told her what she asked me - with some really general answers - damn, this is fun

So far so good ( I belive ). She even mentioned to get together this weekend and have some fun together.

Ok... the girl is fun, young and pretty to a degree ( 7.5 - she is too skiny ). So i'm not head over heels over her.

After the get together I was planing on calling her on Wednesday ( today ) to make a date on Friday. To my surprise she was sending me SMS messages over the phone. You know like: what she's doing, what i'm doing... and to an SMS you have to reply with one. I send her some C&F response every time. This was on Sunday evening and Monday over the day. The SMSs are really annoying me. If I want to see how someone is doing I call or something.

After some c&f SMS, she even said she has to stop bothering me so much.

Ok... I got some clean air yesterday - no SMS! I will be calling her for a date on Friday later this day.


And finally the Question :

In this time when technology is so advanced and accessible, how to have some "room" to yourself. This SMS's are really invading. Share some info how do you play this SMS game


I hope you understand my problem. I'm not native English speaker and am tired after the partying yesterday - it rocked even though I didn't get any # ( asked one girl for # and talked to a bunch of girls and just kept it light and fun - can't wait for tonight - partytime!! ).


Take care....


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Please.... please.... don't hurt meeee!

 

[DonJohn83]

If you want to maintain some mystery, then dont reply to her SMS's. And in the cases that you DO REPLY, wait a couple of hours first.

She'll be burning to know what you're upto.

 

[kixs]

Originally posted by DonJohn83
If you want to maintain some mystery, then dont reply to her SMS's. And in the cases that you DO REPLY, wait a couple of hours first.

She'll be burning to know what you're upto.

Noted!

 

[Austin Allegro]

Yes, be very careful with sms.

In my experience, if a girl sends an occasional sms it's because she doesn't want to speak to you directly. I have phoned girls to ask them out, been told they'll get back to me when they've checked their diary (or somesuch low IL BS) and then they've said they've blown me out via sms.

Also, if you get into the habit of sending them all the time you run the risk of being 'friendzoned' - just like emails or Instant Messenger.

So use the facility sparingly. Maintain mystery!