Report: Date at her house with 2 more female friends (need advices)

[cclemon]

Hello guys, I'm inexperienced, but I'm getting better.

So, i met a girl online (HB 8), let's call her "Main". She lives with a friend (female), let's call her "Target", also single. Saturday night, asked Main out on a date, she said she didn't want to leaver her friend alone, so she invited me to have dinner on her appartment, and I accepted.
When I got there, WHAT THE ****, her friend is HOT (HB 9). And there was a third girl (HB 6), let's call her "****blocker", another friend of hers visiting them.
Importante note: I was well dressed, I have a good body and brought a good wine, so I was showing high value.

Main and Target were preparing dinner while I was watching videos and talking to ****blocker (yeah, that kinda sucks). ****blocker shows some IOIs. I think I should have tried to balance, by not acting boring nor so interesting, but it's too late.

Dinner is ready, we start eating, I'm feeling some IOIs from the three girls (a lot from ****blocker, a lot from Target, and less from Main). Target is very nice and we have a lot of rapport. But, ****blocker is VERY interested, and Main realizes. Main starts saying things like "Come on, add ****blocker on facebook (when ****blocker was checking her facebook)", "****blocker likes X, take a note cclemon!". I can't tell if it was either **** test or she was really supporting her.

After we finished eating, ****blocker had to leave (thank God!). We decided to watch a movie (me, Main and Target). I sit on one end of the sofa, Main sits very close to me (what surprises me, because she wasn't showing a lot of IOI) and Target besides her (maybe I should I have tried to sit on the middle of them). During the movie, I had heavy kino with Main, but no kiss yet (another mistake?). I was a little frustrated because I wanted Target, even tough Main is an HB 8. End of the movie, really late, I had to go. Main followed me to my car. I went for a kiss, she evaded (what the hell?!). I insisted and got a quick tongueless 5 seconds kiss.
conclusions:

- ****blocker screwed me a little bit, but I recovered from it after she left.
- Main was the safe one to go for (after all, I was there because I met Main online), and I didn't want to risk getting rejected by both. But all I got the ****ty 5 second kiss.
- Target was who I really wanted and I'm sure she wanted too, should have gone for her.

Questions:
How would you deal with ****blocker?
Would you go for Main or Target? Or both ? (and how to manage to do it)
Is there still a chance if I try to something with Target ? How would you do it? Or, even better, try to have a threesome?

Thanks guys

 

[Who Dares Win]

First of all in my opinion multiple people dates are what girls use to avoid intimacy, doesnt matter if its out or at home.

The fact that c0ckblocker was there and the other girls were trying to couple you means that they are probably used to steal attention to her and somehow wanted to handle her a guy or try to make it looks like that.

Wheter they want to help her friends to reiforce their herd coesion or simply "fix her" to have an ego boost is beyong the purpose of your question.

Now the kiss part when main walked you to the car, she avoided your first kiss which means low attraction but then she grants you a toungeless kiss when you instist, she either is lukewarm toward you or has no interest and gave you that last kiss to drop you.

What would I do in your case? well you said you like target then go for her, c0ckblocker is ugly so no, main shows low interest in many situations (from the setting a group date to leave you alone with c0ck blocker while she was cooking to reject your kiss).

Im an apologetic a$$hole with no concern for morality or niceness therefore I would simply tell main that target is kinda hot and would like to take her out then ask for number, I mean tell her to give you targets number instead of asking what she thinks about it or if its a good idea.

Once you have targets number you work on it.

Regarding your opinion about main wanting you, personally I believe you are delusional, she basically did so many thi

 

[CMNILS87]

You lost frame. You put yourself in a position to lose. When you offer a date, it's implicitly stated it's just you two. If she counters, then say no because you're traditional and you want to get to know her, not her friends. If she huffs and puffs, Not your problem.

You wanted to make out with her and you couldn't close and get naughty because you didn't give the girl autonomy ie (no friends).

You know where you screwed up, remember this

 

[NSX-R]

Didn't even read further than the title. Friendzone alert

 

[Jetleg]

"didnt want to leave her friends alone" - means "im not into you, but you can come over and be my best g@y friend"

Next time tell her its cool, and that you'll meet another time.

Accepting that offer means being friendzoned.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

That's not a date. That's you gate-crashing a girly dinner party.

One, you don't give girls you've never met premium leisure slots like Friday and Saturday nights; MAYbe Friday, at a push if you really have nothing better to do. This was mistake number one.

Two, she counter-offered weakly, which you can take as low interest; though maybe some mild interest all the same. Owing to the above, you should have in turn countered her offer, "I could meet for a drink Sunday or Tuesday". She should be fitting in to your tight schedule; you have no personal value otherwise. You're just another sexually frustrated schmuck; the kind she meets every day.

Three, after all this, the attempted kiss at the end, with very little if any rapport even going, was just pure cringe mate.

I insisted and got a quick tongueless 5 seconds kiss

'Insisted'....? Cringe dude. Pure cringe. A girl should at least be kissing you back, if not initiating first.

I'd call this one dead in the water and start reading some and practicing interacting with girls.

You are not paying enough attention to interest levels. At the moment you are acting like a guy who has absolutely zero options, socially, sexually, romantically or otherwise. Females will smell this a mile off, even before they've met you nowadays.

 

[cclemon]

Ok, lessons learned: Never go on a "date" with her friends.

I agree with you all except the part where you said I shouldn't have gone for the kiss. We were lying on the sofa like that:
http://www.visualphotos.com/photo/2x4395675/couple-lying-on-a-sofa-looking-at-mobile-phone.jpg

Good side: already managed to get Target's phone number, I will work on her now.

Thanks guys

 

[SgtSplacker]

You feel for the oldest trick in the book. These girls used you for entertainment and validation, they also tested you.

The other two girls might not have had any real interest in you at all, women play these games all the time. This is why you never hang out in a group of women where you are only gaming one.

They will all game you to see if you are just some horny dude or a decent guy just after one girl. Both are losing scenarios. The only way to win is to neg them all except your primary interest.

If she would have tried to make it a group outing with a male friend she would constantly been comparing both of you or trying to make you jealous using him.

Never do group outings with a girl you don't know and her friends.