There is this girl that I met through a matrimony site post divorce. She immediately connected and we met quite a number of times. Even though during conversations with her which took in places ranging from coffee shop to garden walks I made it clear to her early on that I wasn't looking for marriage and all, she reciprocated my views and we continued to meet on and off. Then the following things happened :-
1] I was looking at her as just friends, as I was recovering from divorce blues I didn't feel like going for it... we kept meeting during this period.
2] Off late and this is very recent you can say about 2-3 weeks, whenever we met there used to be a lot of sexual content in her conversations and not romantic one but sexual where she would share dirty talks she used to have with her girl friends and the pranks they played etc. Here she would show her friends to be dirty and she to be resilient one.... not totally but somewhat.
3] Although I didn't show or express my surprise this did surprise me, another thing during this period was her coming on dates and following up before date like 'Are We Meeting Today As Planned' kind of thing.
4] Then the bummer, I told her on the last date we should go for a small outing, we had actually discussed this and she was quite into it. So then she was supposed to tell me the day of the weekend when were to meet.
5] She didn't message so I just messaged her and asked her about her plans and she very casually replied 'Oh! Every Thing Got Cancelled, I Am In Some Other City Due To Work'.
6] As I had started reading sosuave by this time, I did not react, I just messaged her 'IC' and asked her about her health as she taken a fall lately.
7] Next day morning the day we were supposed she messages me good morning and I reply back, and she is surprised m up early and I just praise the beauty of the sun and she says a meek 'Ya'.
8] Since then no communication since 5-6 days and that has happened before too.
Conclusion
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I think she was looking for a supplicating/disappointment/show desperation response from me on no 6] & 7] and maybe continuing the same in no 8] to my credit and due to the all the helpful articles I read out here. I did not loose my terms specially when it was clear there something fishy here cause she would always follow up on even small meeting and thing one was a big one she would have informed in case there was some kinda thing going in her mind.
Please Advice
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Now I am sure all you experienced DJs would be able to through some light on this and I would appreciate 2 kinds of advices the most.
1] What does her behavior mean or indicate?
2] Should I Still Pursue her in anyway if she communicates back or if we meet again?
FYI we are both in 30s and Divorced and she is a single mom.
1] I was looking at her as just friends, as I was recovering from divorce blues I didn't feel like going for it... we kept meeting during this period.
2] Off late and this is very recent you can say about 2-3 weeks, whenever we met there used to be a lot of sexual content in her conversations and not romantic one but sexual where she would share dirty talks she used to have with her girl friends and the pranks they played etc. Here she would show her friends to be dirty and she to be resilient one.... not totally but somewhat.
3] Although I didn't show or express my surprise this did surprise me, another thing during this period was her coming on dates and following up before date like 'Are We Meeting Today As Planned' kind of thing.
4] Then the bummer, I told her on the last date we should go for a small outing, we had actually discussed this and she was quite into it. So then she was supposed to tell me the day of the weekend when were to meet.
5] She didn't message so I just messaged her and asked her about her plans and she very casually replied 'Oh! Every Thing Got Cancelled, I Am In Some Other City Due To Work'.
6] As I had started reading sosuave by this time, I did not react, I just messaged her 'IC' and asked her about her health as she taken a fall lately.
7] Next day morning the day we were supposed she messages me good morning and I reply back, and she is surprised m up early and I just praise the beauty of the sun and she says a meek 'Ya'.
8] Since then no communication since 5-6 days and that has happened before too.
Conclusion
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I think she was looking for a supplicating/disappointment/show desperation response from me on no 6] & 7] and maybe continuing the same in no 8] to my credit and due to the all the helpful articles I read out here. I did not loose my terms specially when it was clear there something fishy here cause she would always follow up on even small meeting and thing one was a big one she would have informed in case there was some kinda thing going in her mind.
Please Advice
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Now I am sure all you experienced DJs would be able to through some light on this and I would appreciate 2 kinds of advices the most.
1] What does her behavior mean or indicate?
2] Should I Still Pursue her in anyway if she communicates back or if we meet again?
FYI we are both in 30s and Divorced and she is a single mom.