“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Report about the two biggest and most natural DJs I know.

Donjuanpablo

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There are only two people I know that are what you would call "natural djs" both of whom are good friends. One of them is Andy, the other Liam and both of them are in there early 20s. I know one of them through uni, the other is a neighbour. I would like to share with you some of my observations of these guys because I believe that some of their qualities are exceptional, especially when it comes to handling women and life.

Many of the qualities that I have described have been well documented in the past on this web but I thought it would be good to present to you their most obvious character traits to that some of you aspiring djs can see what makes a person so easily drawn to.


- They are both have an aura about them when they speak to you. At times you think that you are the only person in the world when having a conversation because they speak with so much enthusiasm and interest.

- The listen to what you say enthusiastically and remember certain details.

- Never have a bad word to say about anybody and have a great understanding of others.

- You’re not exactly sure where you sit with them at times. Though very friendly and energetic, you sometimes have to face their cold shoulder which may cause you to try and regain their attention.

- They’re very popular people. These guys know a lot of people from many groups. When out they can have a conversation with many people and are always introducing themselves to others. They do, however, have close friends who they stick with at most times, but love inviting others to join in their conversations.

- They’re unpredictable when they speak to you. You know some people when they talk to you, you know exactly what they’re gonna say? With these guys, they could come up and talk to you about politics or tell you a funny story about fishing. Each conversation is entertaining.

- They always have a story up their sleeve. They always have a good story to say about a certain subject and even though it may not have a punch line or be that funny, they present it with such enthusiasm that it is entertaining nontheless.

- They are not afraid to be different in the clothes that they wear of their style of hair. Again they are unpredictable in this department and love doing something different to attract attention. They even have just a subtle difference in style that makes them different.

- Walk in a very positive manner with their heads held high and with a purpose.

- Aren’t caught up in the boundaries of society. In fact, they act as if they are unaware of societies rules or stereotypes. They talk to anyone and react to situations how they see it. For example when they see an hb, they don’t think "oh this isn’t the right environment", but rather they don’t think. I never crosses their mind. They just go talk.

- They aren’t afraid of women. They treat all women the same, whether it be a 4 or a 10 and know that that they can have everyone of them. Talks to women about all sorts of topics as well and is never concerned about what they will think.

- Aren’t necessarily good looking. On of these guys is quite ugly, but his positive vibe and good fashion sense make him quite accessible to any women.

- They love women. They love life and they love women and love talking about women. They don’t have anything against women, and have many female friends.

- When they talk, they talk loud. They don’t care if they offend anyone when they speak about something and people notice this and are drawn to them.

- They are always happy and have a passion for life. Even when shyt happens they have a way of keeping things positive and always give off a good vibe.


There you go. Ill be sure to think of some more so Ill add them if I can think of them.

Cheers.

DJP



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Mr. Mystery

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That sounds almost exactly how my friend Chris (the biggest DJ I know) is.

That is the frame of mind I'm aiming towards, and based on the responses I've been getting from people around me, I'm becoming very much like them also.

Mr. Mystery

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"Every passing minute is a chance to turn it all around" - Vanilla Sky

The unexamined life is not worth living – Socrates

"Whats your favorite position? That's cool with me, it's not my favorite but I'll do it for you" - Tenacious D - Fvck her gentley

"I'd rather hear no, than never know" - Mr. Mystery himself!

Those that go searching for love, only manifest their own lovelessness. And the loveless never find love, only the loving find love. And they never have to seek for it - D.H. Lawrence

"Don't take life too seriously or you'll never get out alive" - Van Wilder
 

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Excellent post.

The most effective way to get similar results to what other people are getting is to start doing similar things.

That's not to say lose your individuality (heck, having individuality and energy is one of the main things we are ironically mimicking) it is to say rather than be influenced by all the negative things in life, like you have been since you were born, look at what does work, and start doing that sort of thing.

This applies to every area of life. If you want to become strong, find out how other people who are strong have got where they are. If you want to be enthusiastic and upbeat, talk to others who are like that, there's an excellent chance they'll be able to share with you some excellent insight.

Model successful people and you increase your chances immeasureably of being successful yourself...

or so I've read
 

aznbreakerjrey

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You know what u just made me realize? That I have NO Don Juan friends ... none, nada, ziltch. Don't get me wrong, they're good guys, but hot damn they can't mack for sh*t. Ah wellz, I can further my DJness without a person to model/compete myself against, but it would be good to have one. Solid post
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I'm going to do just the opposite here.

Iwant to tell you all about the most unlikely DJ I have ever known. I worked with a guy a few years ago. He was in his late 20's. Loud, rude, crude, obnoxious. He annoyed everyone. But he got tons of women. He had alot of short flings and had a good number of steady girl friends. And all were really cute. He was like Fonzi or something. I could never figure out how he did it. So one night he invited me to the club. And I watched him. He was a totally different person. He was cool, charming, and flirted with all the ladies. He would talk to to all the ladies. Not just the cute ones. So all the ladies in the club knew who he was. I saw him in one night get 3 phone numbers and ended up leaving with one and went to her house for the night. I hung out with him alot after a while and he always left with at least a phone number.
 
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