"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so taking train from wisconsin to chicago to meet w/ girl on third date.
Going to sightsee and check out various tourist spots in Chicago.

Her text: Do you think you'll be able to make it back Saturday (night) or would you like to say over till Sunday?

I guess I just want to hook up w/ her. Surprises me that some girls are just so fwd. New territory for me.


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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my suggestion : "well, what would you prefer ? "
better said with a peculiar ****y tone rahter than in text message !
 
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Brevity and plausible deniablity are your friends. Keep it simple and if she gets nosy come up with some bs reason you should stay that sounds somewhat plausible so you can stay over, that way she doesn't feel slutty explaining to her friends why you had to crash at her place.

Her text: Do you think you'll be able to make it back Saturday (night) or would you like to say over till Sunday?

You: Yes.

She'll should hit you back again trying to get clarification. That's when you say Sunday. For example:

You: Sunday. Who travels on a Saturday night?
 
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