Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is there an easy way to see replies to a thread I've posted in?

Other than searching by my name to see where I've posted and then going through, of course. Like, isn't there a way to have it email me when I get a response or something?

TIA,

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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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On another related tech support note, how do I get it to auto-include my signature? It's a pain to have to click on that box every time and I usually forget


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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
 

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ANYONE???
 

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Originally posted by Amlothi:
On another related tech support note, how do I get it to auto-include my signature? It's a pain to have to click on that box every time and I usually forget


There is no other option for this because of the software that is used for this website.
 

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Originally posted by Amlothi:
Is there an easy way to see replies to a thread I've posted in?

Other than searching by my name to see where I've posted and then going through, of course. Like, isn't there a way to have it email me when I get a response or something?

TIA,

Just check the appropriate box at the bottom when you make a NEW topic.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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