"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Amlothi

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Is there an easy way to see replies to a thread I've posted in?

Other than searching by my name to see where I've posted and then going through, of course. Like, isn't there a way to have it email me when I get a response or something?

TIA,

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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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On another related tech support note, how do I get it to auto-include my signature? It's a pain to have to click on that box every time and I usually forget


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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
 

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ANYONE???
 

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Originally posted by Amlothi:
On another related tech support note, how do I get it to auto-include my signature? It's a pain to have to click on that box every time and I usually forget


There is no other option for this because of the software that is used for this website.
 

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Originally posted by Amlothi:
Is there an easy way to see replies to a thread I've posted in?

Other than searching by my name to see where I've posted and then going through, of course. Like, isn't there a way to have it email me when I get a response or something?

TIA,

Just check the appropriate box at the bottom when you make a NEW topic.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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