"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Zen Energy

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To sum all tips in one inning....well first of all, grab your nuts, scratch them until they're ready to approach the hottest babe alive, humor the **** out of her, and take her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Zen Energy

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The Zen Energy said:
To sum all tips in one inning....well first of all, grab your nuts, scratch them until they're ready to approach the hottest babe alive, humor the **** out of her, and take her.
I look back at my own post and i myself see how strange and useless that sounded.

Let's look at the bigger picture here, the more stones u throw, the more birds they will hit.(The more bait you throw, the more area will be covered) Just go up to those women and talk to them, what exactly is the worst that could happen?

Scenerio:

Guy says: *confidently walks up to her* Heyy

Girl says: *eyes slightly dialated* hey! how are you?

Scenerio 2:

Guy says: *hesitates*.. um..hi..

Girl says: ...um, do I know you?

You choose wich approach seems better.
 

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Guy: *confidently walks up to her* Heyy
Girl : *takes out tiple barell shotgun* say hello to my little friend ?

Guy: *hesitates* ... umm..hi..
Girl : ... umm , yeah i have a boyfriend but ill give you my number just in case
 

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esu2 said:
Guy: *confidently walks up to her* Heyy
Girl : *takes out tiple barell shotgun* say hello to my little friend ?

Guy: *hesitates* ... umm..hi..
Girl : ... umm , yeah i have a boyfriend but ill give you my number just in case


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