"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rep ranges?

Snap87

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Sup, quick question. What is the rep range most people use for getting big? I hear people saying you cannot be big while being so strong or so. Is it true (like diesel's thread to bulking up) that using rep ranges 4-8 is good for getting big, while getting a lot of strength too? I want to get big, but i also don't want to be weak because i want to be good in football next year. So, what rep range is best for both size and strength? ONe more thing, should you go to failure on every set, only last set, or never go to failure?



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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Centaurion

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Maxing out or going to failure on every set can be very taxing for your cns system. I don't believe it's necessary to go to failure everytime.

As for the rep range, it depends on you and what your body responds to. I personally am a low volume guy, so I try to stay in the 4-8 range.
 

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have you been getting good results in both size and strength? I understand that everybody is different, but i just want to know :cool:
 

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i do 4 sets, 12, 10, 8, 6,

and thats been working for me so.

i personally think u should not stick to anything just one week do

3 sets 4-8 reps

another week

4 sets 12-10-8-6 reps

3 sets 12-12-12

etc keep switching

I think the way ur body works out should be plastic, since ur body grows and adapts to whatever.
 

AgonyUncle

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It depends on your level and what exercises you are doing.

Compound movements, 6-8 is ideal. Isometric, 10-15.

Im on the other side of the fence when it comes to training intensity. Train till failure, as much as possible. You are there to stress and break down muscle, not to do cardio.

Esp these days since everyone screams overtraining at every opportuinty. If you are doing less then 12 work sets on any given day, training to failure is a neccesity.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrRuckus

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I do 1 rest/pause set. Do about 8 to failure... take off 15-20 seconds... do as many as i can to failure... take off 15-20 seconds... then as many as i can to failure....which ends up between 11-20 total reps usually.

Works and i don't spend all day in the gym watching other guys do 4 bicep exercises at 3-4 sets apiece....

and i can avoid the creepy guy who came up to me and said "don't think i'm creepy, but do you believe in divine healing?"
 
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