Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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pvf94

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What are they, and where do you find how many you have or something along those lines....I have only found out how to Rep somebody.


What are they and how do I view mine or others?! =P
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Docs

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You cannot view the amount of another persons reputation, unless you guess.

I have 71 points as of right now, and just passed whoever was under me, so he had 70.

Point is, whatever.
 

pvf94

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Says I have 10...dunno how or why lol. Thanks for the help though dudes =)
 

THE_ADDMAN

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anyone know what amounts of rep give you your "rating"?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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logicallefty

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Rep points are a message board's version of a grade school popularity contest.. ""Let's base our decision on weather we like or dislike a person based on how other's have liked or disliked them in the past... It's too much effort to read and develop our opinion of a person ourself.."" :rolleyes:

Glad this site doesn't use them, that's all I can say.. I think that all the more emphisizes the level headed and mature audience we have here compared to many other Internet message boards. We don't need rep points here..
 

pvf94

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Mind you I never condoned or implied that I want them ;) Just got curious when I saw some kiddies whining about it in another post...
 

Ace of Flames

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If you wanna see where you line up with everyone else, click Members List, then Rep, and it'll organize everyone starting from the most rep to the least.

I'm on the first page, so I guess I'm happy?
 
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