"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Removing the Dancing Monkey

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Yes... I have realized that I am indeed a dancing monkey.

I didn't used to be, but then I turned up the expressions and tonality and energy up 100%, and I guess I confused being the center of attention and momentary insta-attraction with real value and alpha-ness.

But could I get some advice? Like... a video of a guy talking that has an appropriate energy level? (PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE. Doesn't have to be a pick-up video, just a video of a guy talking properly.)

I'm in high school, so dancing monkey tends to work fine mostly at school, but I'm trying to get past that.

EDIT: Is David Letterman a good role model?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Stop doing drugs.
 
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Hughman

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Haha, dancing monkey. I sympathise. Still, better a dancing monkey than a wall flower.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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