We're guys discussing guy things. We don't need a censor filter removing words that we all use everyday. Even girlprolems.com doesn't have a censor filter and it's filled with 13 year old girls. It just makes us look wimpy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.