"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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squirrels

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The guy is spamming the discussion forum with hundreds of posts from some speed seduction manual he found somewhere.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kourt

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I 2nd that
 

tactic

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i noticed he made a bunch of threads
 

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comic_relief

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Yes ban him

I think that he is trying to flame bait me.

His stuff is clearly trying to drive up his post count. Then he has the gumption to ask to become a moderator after being here only 5 days or so.

Ban or do something to him.

Edit: Crazy check for squirrelz IP too. It doesn't take half a brain to copy and paste.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Blue Phoenix

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My opinion!

I think this guy just found this forum and now is making fun of it.

Since his 3rd post I thought something was not ok.

He IS making fun of our forum and trying to fill it up with a lot of posts.

Once I started making fun with some of my friends with lots of emails and that's not really a good thing to do. After that, I noticed they were getting annoyed and I learned my lesson.

This guy must be warned, otherwise he'll not stop and he'll never change (even though it's none of anyone's bussiness)!
 
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He's not doing anything to improve the quality of the board. He's just dragging it down.
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
He's not doing anything to improve the quality of the board. He's just dragging it down.
He's also been banned.
 

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squirrles...i thought you got in trouble earlier this year, (or am i thinking of someone else.)

i must have missed alot this summer since i took some time off from the forums.
 

squirrels

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Originally posted by WaRpEd
squirrles...i thought you got in trouble earlier this year, (or am i thinking of someone else.)

i must have missed alot this summer since i took some time off from the forums.
Might've been that guy who posted under "squirrel" and started dredging up old posts of mine. To my KNOWLEDGE, I've never been in trouble here. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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just for your info squirrels your posts are still locked up from that squirrelz incident
 
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