"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CHALENGE GUY

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ABC OF GETTING LAID

BEING a challenge

- Being unpredictable
- Don’t be always available (After you've eliminated desire, after you've been excellent with her, retreat and she will pursue you.)
- Social proof, compliment other women, let her overhear your conversation with my lady friends
- WARMTH : Show respect for others and pay attention to everyone Rotation theory : make her work for my attention (do not always be available!). BE NICE TO EVERYONE.
- THINK and BELIEVE that you are The Great Catch.
- Dress to impress and physical attitude (Good carriage)
- Surprise her with an invitation (phone). Remember to cut the conversation after 5 minutes. Use the phone only to set up meetings.
- Stop thinking about her and be passionnate about my life and goals. Treat my hobbies as if they have more value then the women do. STOP INFATUATION RIGHT NOW ! Eliminate desire. Your seductiveness is that you don't approach women with an ulterior motive. Women can sniff an ulterior motive a mile away and they don't like it.
- CHARM : Charm is more than simply having the ability to make people feel comfortable in your presence, it’s the talent to make people — sometimes complete strangers — enjoy it. Charm is not sexual, or sleazy; it’s light and pleasant, and mostly warm. Charm is defined by your tone of voice, the eye contact you make and your word choice in conveying a message. It’s the ability to make people feel that they matter to you — regardless of whether they do.
- SMILE YOU MORON!
- Be light hearted (say no to negativity). Radiate positivity.
- One wink
- Be playful with her. Have fun with the woman. Don't take your outings so seriously. A woman must feel comfortable and secure with you before intimacy can begin. The key to her feeling comfortable and secure is by having fun WITH YOU.
- Do not reveal to much about yourself (mystery).
- * * * USE KINO * * * Lightly touch her on the arm. Also, come up behind her to tell her something, put your hand on her shoulder and state whatever it is in her ear in a low voice.
- Stop being a weirdo
- Lead and be assertive, exude confidence and decisiveness. Don't ever say "I don't know, what do you want to do?". CALL THE SHOTS !


Whatever happens, never say I love you.
Whatever happens, never apologize for your desires.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lorenzo

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Great post, easily understood, keep it up guy!

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Anthony (Lorenzo)
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"Son, back in my day... a 'back-ho' was a tool" -My Daddy
 

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Good post. Ten thumbs up for this one post, Challenge Guy.

Keep up the good job.!

By the way,where did you get all these?
 

CHALENGE GUY

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Hi legend.

It's nice to see some familiar faces.

I'm back.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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