"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Reminder - YOU'LL REGRET NOT APPROACHING HER

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damn i was in line at subway, fine ass girl walks in stands right beside me, only me and her in line waiting, BUT I DIDNT SAY ANYTHING... now i feel like CRAAAAAAAAAP because she was FIIINE and it would have been soooo easy just to spark up conversation, say hi, c/f neg her for putting extra mayo on her teriyaki chicken sub, whatever whatever etc.

so remember you new cats to the game always say somethin no matter what, if you don't you'll regret it later

it would have hardly even been an "approach" she was right f*ckin beside me

still cant believe i didnt say anything like i normally would have :down: i woke up today feeling/looking like crap so i didnt want to even try at the time, but now i much rather would have said SOMETHING than NOTHING

don't let it happen to you!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, lemme see, I failed to approach a *****load last night as well. I had two gals sit to the left of me and just talk like the b1tches like to yap yap yap. I sit there looking around saying nothing. Two flat out wh0res sit across from me (with a straight-on shot of my face) and I do not move over there and talk to em. Two Florida fishes lean against the table in front of me and ask me what time it is (I don't even have to look at my watch because I've checked it a-plenty), I tell them the time and she says, "It's TIME!" I have no idea what she meant by that (it was 1:00 AM so I guess she meant it's time for me to go back to their place and **** them). A girl is dancing with some crazy fvck all night long and falls into me, but continues dancing with him in front of me and makes sure I see her letting him touch her body in various places, and then she gets away from him (because she wants me). I have 3 broads (look like go-go mall b1tches) dancing in front of me (getting hit on by lesser men - and they totally shut them out all the while they won't stop looking at me; they're 5s at best ugg, but they want me to fvck em). I missed a slew of opportunities last night because I'm lazy, and I should be executed, so don't feel bad, man, we all make mistakes. I'm thinkin about going out tonight, a Sunday, as crazy as it seems, fvck I don't know.
 

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Subway...haha I remember almost passing up approaching the hottest woman I ever approached in subway. Luckily I did approach.

Now an approach I regret was yesterday at a theme park. This chick in a bikini going on a raft ride ass was looking so eatable. I was literrally thinking of skipping to get near her group and open her. This chicks ass was a 10 in itself an I was knocking myself on the head because she was already going on the raft. I pictured in my head me running and jumpping on her raft and then opening the group. If only I did it...but now I regret not jumpping in there raft with the risk of getting kicked out the park, hey atleast I would've got her # and hopefully got a day2.
 

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Distant Light said:
Subway...haha I remember almost passing up approaching the hottest woman I ever approached in subway. Luckily I did approach.

Now an approach I regret was yesterday at a theme park. This chick in a bikini going on a raft ride ass was looking so eatable. I was literrally thinking of skipping to get near her group and open her. This chicks ass was a 10 in itself an I was knocking myself on the head because she was already going on the raft. I pictured in my head me running and jumpping on her raft and then opening the group. If only I did it...but now I regret not jumpping in there raft with the risk of getting kicked out the park, hey atleast I would've got her # and hopefully got a day2.
LOL, Distant, Fellow New Yorker, Cool.
 

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Soprano said:
damn i was in line at subway, fine ass girl walks in stands right beside me, only me and her in line waiting, BUT I DIDNT SAY ANYTHING... now i feel like CRAAAAAAAAAP because she was FIIINE and it would have been soooo easy just to spark up conversation, say hi, c/f neg her for putting extra mayo on her teriyaki chicken sub, whatever whatever etc.

so remember you new cats to the game always say somethin no matter what, if you don't you'll regret it later

it would have hardly even been an "approach" she was right f*ckin beside me

still cant believe i didnt say anything like i normally would have :down: i woke up today feeling/looking like crap so i didnt want to even try at the time, but now i much rather would have said SOMETHING than NOTHING

don't let it happen to you!!!
BTW, this is very true and very good advice. Nice Soprano.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The HTSWW book recommends approaching and saying 'hi' to 6 attractive girls a day, and another approach site recommends approaching at least one attractive girl a day within a 30 min allocation of time.

Practise such as this pays off in situations where you need it the most. Also practise approach with more complicated sets - like a a few girls together, or asking if a seat is taken with a target that's sitting down. Each time you practise you are investing - or buying insurance that an approach will be natural to you when you need to do it.

Each time one practises it's like exercising a muscle - have to continue exercising to stay in shape - so when the time comes to use it, you can lift the weight you need to lift.

So, the OP is incorrect - it's NOT you'll regret not approaching her, YOU'LL REGRET NOT PRACTISING and getting good or KEEPING IN SHAPE at approaches so you'll do it when you need to.
 

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i feel you dude. This has happened to me before like in the thread i said about these women showing up when you're not prepared. In my case, i look bad on those days and they're always there. When i am good, NO hot babe is there.
 

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If you ever hesitate to approach again think back to the feeling you had @ Subway when you could have approached but didn't.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
The HTSWW book recommends approaching and saying 'hi' to 6 attractive girls a day, and another approach site recommends approaching at least one attractive girl a day within a 30 min allocation of time.

Practise such as this pays off in situations where you need it the most. Also practise approach with more complicated sets - like a a few girls together, or asking if a seat is taken with a target that's sitting down. Each time you practise you are investing - or buying insurance that an approach will be natural to you when you need to do it.

Each time one practises it's like exercising a muscle - have to continue exercising to stay in shape - so when the time comes to use it, you can lift the weight you need to lift.

So, the OP is incorrect - it's NOT you'll regret not approaching her, YOU'LL REGRET NOT PRACTISING and getting good or KEEPING IN SHAPE at approaches so you'll do it when you need to.
pft i dont even see 6 hot girls a day unless im at a club or a party
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrRuckus said:
:D

Trust me if I was close enough to open her I would've went super direct on her. This girl had a crazy little body in that bikini. It's always when I'm already with a girl that I tend to see the hottest girls. But I would've walked away from the girl I was with just to open that chick because if she met my standards that chick would've been getting some hot sex and a fun time rolling with me.

Damn I regret not skipping the line to jump on the raft. So what If I get kicked out. Regret hurts a lot.
 

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bumping this because it happened again to me today :nervous: :nervous: :nervous: :nervous: :nervous:
 
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sun of a b1tch!!!

I missed so many i really don't even care anymore. think about the future i say
 

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I WROTE AN ARTICLE A YEAR BACK ABOUT LONG LINE = GOLDMINE.

DAY GAMING has an advantage over club sarging as OPPORTUNITIES do not always happen on Saturday night between 10 pm-2am. CARPE DIUM.....seize the moment.

subway huh...........hmmmmmm let me think........

WOW THATS HOT.......YOU LIKE FOOTLONGS HUH!!! I guess in this case size matters.

WE HAVE A LOT IN COMMON .......you like footlongs, I have a footlong, we are both in line........match made in deli heaven.

INTESTING FACTOID..........WHATS LONG AND HARD AND CONTAINS SEMEN.......A SUB.......MARINE.

IS THIS THE LINE FOR FREE WINNING LOTTERY TICKETS

HEY SUPERMANS GIRLFRIEND IS WORKING.......SLOWEST LANE.
 

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I'm bumping this because of allof the obvious come ones i've missed

lol It sucks thinking back to when a girl was like in love with you, but you were too pvssy to do anything about it.

I'm talking huge interest. Nervous when she talks to you. Happy that you ask her out. one even flat out approaching ME in class. lol now my motivation is never again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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