"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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*Reminder* DJ Bible Study, tomorrow 4PM PST (time changed)

Peaks&Valleys

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DJ Bible Study
This forum, tomorrow, Tuesday 1/28 at 4pm PST
We will be discussing the first 5 lessons of Pook's "15 Lessons". If you can't make it right on time, that's okay, get in when you can.

Excerpts from this week's reading:

“Foresight teaches gently; error teaches brutally”
“Rejection is better than Regret”
"Friendship- Abandon all hope ye who enter!"
“Judge by actions, not by words.”
“Patience is the refined sense of confidence.”
“Trust the gut.”

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthr...threadid=59150

For those that wish to be involved, please read up and have questions and thoughts ready for discussion. :yes:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Study who you want my man.

If you want to be apart of this discussion on the DJ Bible you're more than welcome. If not, that's okay, no one's forcing you to do anything.

Go ahead and start a thread on Bruce Lee, I'll check it out. :up:
 
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