"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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*Reminder* DJ Bible Study, tomorrow 4PM PST (time changed)

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DJ Bible Study
This forum, tomorrow, Tuesday 1/28 at 4pm PST
We will be discussing the first 5 lessons of Pook's "15 Lessons". If you can't make it right on time, that's okay, get in when you can.

Excerpts from this week's reading:

“Foresight teaches gently; error teaches brutally”
“Rejection is better than Regret”
"Friendship- Abandon all hope ye who enter!"
“Judge by actions, not by words.”
“Patience is the refined sense of confidence.”
“Trust the gut.”

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthr...threadid=59150

For those that wish to be involved, please read up and have questions and thoughts ready for discussion. :yes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Study who you want my man.

If you want to be apart of this discussion on the DJ Bible you're more than welcome. If not, that's okay, no one's forcing you to do anything.

Go ahead and start a thread on Bruce Lee, I'll check it out. :up:
 
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