"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Remember last time you where indulging in your favourite food, just picture the taste as you eat it. You are enjoying eating it but now think back to a time where you wanted some (e.g. chocolate cake) but could not have any for what ever reason. Remember how much you longed for some, how you would have done anything for it, you where dieing to get some of it!

Remember back to the last place you went to that the thought of going to made you real excited, like on holiday or an amusement park. You had a good time inside, but do you remember how excited you where in the morning before you got there.

Remember how excited you where when you got your birthday present, much more so then once you had already recived it!

Remember how excited you where when your grandparents came round after you havent seen them in so long, or you dad just came back home after being abroad for work for a while, or your freind whom you havent seen in so long finaly came back to town. You where so excited about it, but once they came, even thou you like them being with you, you did not feel the same feeling you did before.

What do all these have in common? No matter what the situation, we long for what we do not currently have, once we have it, we do not feel this longing feeling.

A girl will feel the exact same feeling if she wants to be with you and you do not give her enough attention!

This has been discused before, but i think once its really put in to context, you can start to realise how strong this effect is.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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