"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Remember Self Respect. Do What you can with what you have.

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This is another thread about materialism but it goes into a different tangent.

Some of you guys seem to be very worried about designer clothes, luxury cars, and expensive shoes.

You know what matters more than these things?

Respect for yourself.

Do what you can with what you have. You might not have the best clothes or the best car, but treat it all with Respect.

Keep what you have as clean and as immaculate as possible. Do you think a girl cares about what you have if you don't even respect yourself and you aren't a man?

A man respects himself. Discount clothing and an average car goes a long way if you present yourself well.

If ou do with what you have and most importantly show that you have the UPMOST respect for yourself I assure you that it will get you MUCH FURTHER than wearing designer clothing and having a rolex.

This doesn't mean that those things aren't nice. It just means that they don't matter as much as self respect.

Properly accentuate and do what you can with what you have. Hold yourself well, show that you hold YOURSELF in high regard. NOT these objects.

I'm sure you've all been in average cars that are kept extremely well and detailed. It gives the car a fresh, clean respectable appeal.


A miinimum amount of quality things looks better than a large amount of flashy large shiny objects. Of course, that is subjective but is generally true due to the fact that one or two expensive things in a room gives those things that much more of a rare appeal.


Stop worrying about these thing so much. They come with time, they are icing on the cake.

Remember the replica beta males out there and how they don't match up to any substance.

Remember that girls don't even care THAT much about these things hell, if they like you that much they will even defend you in every way if their friends comment on something bad about you.

If the girl is extremely superficial, then she isn't even worth it anyways. Sounds canned right? Think of it this way.... There will always be someone with more money, or a different set of things that they own. If she NEEDS to have a guy with a beamer, she will leave him for a guy with a ferrari.

These girls come and go and they are in no way shape or form worth the cleaver wound they have between their legs. That is all those girls are really worth. You can find vaginas everywhere. These girls usually have NOTHING to talk about in terms of their beliefs, things they hold themselves to or ANYTHING. They wont last 2 months.

Remember that no amount of flashy clothing, cars, and jewerly will EVER by ANY MEANS WHATSOEVER make up for self respect.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BrokenPath, I totally dig your posts.

Keep em coming, this forum needs more intelligent, eloquent and mature posts like your's.

JJ
 

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BrokenPath said:
If the girl is extremely superficial, then she isn't even worth it anyways.
This is HUGE, and for the life of me I can't understand why guys here can't figure it out. Sure, it's a nice bonus to have that kind of stuff, but if a girl is writing you off because of material things than FORGET HER.

Then again, some of you guys are after the bar-star b*tches with teased blonde hair and mini-skirts. Ugh.
 

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It's all about your setting, location, and social circle, and somewhat of the wealth that surrounds you.

If all of my friends, own their own businesses or work at high paying tech jobs, and hang out with upper class. Then i'm used to the wealth, luxury, up-scale clothing, and cars.

Unless you in a small town rocking D&G, there's really no need to argue what people are spending their money on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jay Jay said:
BrokenPath, I totally dig your posts.

Keep em coming, this forum needs more intelligent, eloquent and mature posts like your's.

JJ
Thank you, my goal is to give back to the forums that helped me selflessly, and to remind the up and coming juans that you WILL get there.

We've ALL been there, I remember when I was a young nooblet on this board and I was so very confused.
 

BrokenPath

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realsmoothie said:
This is HUGE, and for the life of me I can't understand why guys here can't figure it out. Sure, it's a nice bonus to have that kind of stuff, but if a girl is writing you off because of material things than FORGET HER.

Then again, some of you guys are after the bar-star b*tches with teased blonde hair and mini-skirts. Ugh.
Exactly!

They are good for one thing, sex.

Be that as it may, many other girls can offer sex and the ones that are surounded by one obsession aren't worth it. They will leave their current guy for someone that has more. They are on a mission for a certain status.

A status that in the end doesn't equate to anything. Fed only by the group that follows.

Follower? or Leader. Your choice.
 
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