remember guys - number rating applies to us as well....

[Delta]

we are quick to rate women on the hb0 - hb10 scale...

funny thing is, we have a tendency to judge ourselves much more binarily... DJ or AFC (well, we do have some gradation like RAFC). this is both unfair to us and unnecessarily harsh. think about how liberating it is to realize that we don't just fall into one of two (three, etc) camps... we have a whole scale of 10 (in actuality, much greater than that), by which we can be rated.

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there is an ECOLOGY to the mating/dating game.

we all have natural prey that is available to us. depending on where they are.... and depending on where we are.

and it is difficult for EVERYONE on the scale... here's the REVERSE SITUATION of the one we're accustomed to pondering:

sure 10 women want 10 guys but 10 guys are HEAVILY sought after by all women... and because of the fact that for the 10 guys, the world is a buffet, they are highly... distractible. tough for the 10 chick who wants him.

it is situations like these (and maybe not dreams of ultra-game) that leaves open opportunities for lesser men.
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i was watching HOUSE (hugh laurie tv show on fox) and house was checking out a guy's wife and he couldn't believe that a worried woman was a guy's wife... because she was an 8 and he... wasn't. he went on about how 2s hook up with 2s, 5s with 5s, etc. very rare to see a 9 with a 4.

and this is something that i think we are trying to be deluded into forgetting sometimes in this community - or at least, the idea is being misinterpreted.

I THINK THIS IS TRUE!

a 10 won't be with a 3. no matter how much game he has.

and it may indeed be ABERRATIONS where you see a 3 with a 9 as so many advocate when they speak of technique. she may be a looks 9 but maybe horribly fd up in other ways.

and this is why maybe those who advocated SELF IMPROVEMENT (a tactic which i vehemently disagreed with as an answer to the question - how do i get women? maybe onto the right trail when it comes to the question - how do i get a woman of quality? [but i still consider it putting the horse before the cart for many of the true novices here including me - hot and defective is fine by me]).
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so be honest. rate yourself fairly. and then you'll know where you can most successfully hunt.

and if you are not happy with the prey that is rightfully yours - THEN, the solution does indeed become self improvement.

luck.

delta

 

[Hitman10000]

I tend to agree. If you're a 5 guy, at the minimum only go with a girl that's a notch higher than you and if possible go another notch higher. If you're one of those types that say "I don't care what people think about me" then by all means stop working, and become homeless. Yes...you do care how people think of you. People judge couples by ...get this HOW ATTRACTIVE the girl is AND how PASSIONATE (not personality) a guy is.

An average joe , who looks like a 5 can definetely date a girl that's a 5 but he should go higher, like a 6-7. Sure he can date higher than 7, but then because the beauty rating starts becoming a large gap. Usually in most minds of people when they see a guy who is a 5 dating a girl that is a 3 , they think he must be a loser. If he's dating a girl of similar attractive ratio, they say mehhhh, but if they see him (a 5) dating a girl that's (a 7) then they go.. HMMM that dude must have skills. But if you go further up the deviancy.. like an 8-9, then it becomes awkward. Think Mr. Pasty Computer Nerd with a Southern California Beach Blonde.

Hitman's Rating system:

8-10s:

http://sportsbybrooks.com/SBBgirls42a.html

5-7s:

http://images.google.com/images?svnum=10&hl=en&lr=&safe=off&q=business+women&btnG=Search

2-4s:

http://www.fatchicksinpartyhats.com/

1s:

http://www.starjones.com/index.cfm?fa=welcome

 

[Tongs]

The number scale is unique to every person, hence, this thread is stupid.

Whats a 10 to me might be a 1 to you, and vice versa.

 

[wayword]

The number scale is unique to every person, hence, this thread is stupid.

Whats a 10 to me might be a 1 to you, and vice versa.

Ultimately yes, but collectively, there are definite statistical trends in beauty...

That's why models and p0rn stars all look a certain way. Without a doubt, girls who look like this will be more desired by more guys than girls who look like Oprah, for instance.

How does a girl know how hot she really is? Pretty simple - by how many guys actively or passively desire her. And, it gets to be pretty consistent wherever she goes.

Real world - go into a club and most all will agree on who is hot and who is not. Let's get real here - very rarely (if ever) will 2 guys rate the same girl a 1 and a 10.