"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Remaining Happy Constantly ..

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Err … as dumb as this may sound, I would like to know how do you’ll keep yourself in a positive state of mind always?

I for one, have continued days of ‘feeling like crap’. Basically, on these days …. I feel good for nothing. Things like

*Average Academic Marks.
*Poor Sport Skills.
*Lack of right attitude at dealing with people.
*Continued waste of time.
*Not enough gains at weight lifting.

** By lack of right attitude with dealing with people, I mean. At times, they affect me a lot. Like for example there’s one guy in my class …. who’s pretty good an Alpha Male at times I think … but whenever I talk to him he makes me feel like crap. He’s an okay buddy of mine.

One encounter, that made me feel like that was …we recently had cricket matches and he participated, he urged me to play … but I was like no, I’m not too good at it. But he persisted with atleast give it a try and why do you think so …etc
Then a little later when we had bball matches, I told him to join the team. He’s like NO. Before, I could tell him anything … he’s like NO, I do not want to play.

Thing is even after being so stubborn and arrogant, he has all the friends. But when I treat people like equals, I guess it doesn’t workout too good.

Do you’ll have any motivating quotes or things to occupy yourselves with it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zod

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mdma = ecstasy...

Drugs (especially Ecstasy - that **** ****s you up) are not the solution.

I don't think you have much of a problem. I used to write DJ on my hand if I ever got out of the DJ mood. It would make me think how a DJ should be acting. Now I don't need to pretend to have that mindset, I always have it. Now instead of writing DJ on my hand, I write things like kino, or something I haven't been doing / noticing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cA^

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Hey mate, i've been abit like yourself lately, exams coming up in 7 weeks and I didnt go too well in the mid-year exams, ill be ****ed if i fail them by my parents :| so i'll be doing alot of study soon, however i just like to think of this quote when i'm at college :

"Live life and love it"
 

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i dont like to be in a good mood all the time (yes it sounds crazy) but somtime i just like to get totaly pissed off at somthing to let off some steam (i might just love the adrenalin rush that comes with anger) in my opinion you wanna be happy but you also wanna have sad and mad experiences or you wont know y being happy is so great. being bored is worse than being sad or angry. just dont be sad or mad around people. diversity is the spice of life
 
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