The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
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Change… change is something that has to occur. In fact, without genetic changes in our deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA) we as humans would cease to exist. With that said I think it is time that we as men begin to refine our methods. Although I am currently with someone, I still continue to play the field only to see what things still work compared to what things do not. And as much as it pains me to say so… it as been my encounters that women are beginning to get a little hip to the game. Hell… my girlfriend even knows that this site exist… I do not know how. In the days that we live in, women more and more are attempting to be more independent of us. Of course, that does not occur with you guys because girls are extremely dependent on guys in High School however as you grow older that dependence (for the most part) begins to wane. Slowly… women are beginning have males take their former place. If you do not believe me, read Forbes magazine’s article about successful women who have househusbands. I believe it is time that we start reinventing the wheel. Like diseases to antibiotics, women have started to become immune to our ways. With all of that said, I have reread the Bible one more time, and I have decided to retread and renew some ideas. The following post is a collection of about six posts to come in the following weeks. This collection is entitled, Reloaded: The Series will take some of the popular techniques and skills and attempt to refine them and make them ten times better. The first of these techniques that I will cover is the negative hit. Without further rambling, The Matrix: Reloaded presents to you… Reloaded: The Series… Negative Hits.
The High School Don Juan Bible describes a negative hit as a “A small compliment and minor insult mixed together, gives you respect while lowering her off her pedestal.” And while I must admit that the negative hit has been somewhat effective, it’s just too dependent on the person. In order for a negative hit to really work, the girl has to be really attractive, has to have guys fawn all over her. However, it has been my experience that unless the girl’s personality is like the aforementioned, or she has a lot of self-esteem… they may find your negative hit to be just that… negative. I have discovered that the negative hit is just not effective enough, so I have managed to come up with something… it is like a negative hit, however it has a bit of a twist. I first came up with this idea when I saw my older cousin perform something that intrigued me. We both worked @ the same restaurant over the summer. Needless to say, a lot of fine girls came there. One day, there was this group of about three girls that he had the balls to approach. Although, he was able to charm all of them (I’ll explain how to attract groups of girls another time) I had focus on one… @ least I could see that. He said to the one he had the most interest in, “You know from back there when the light hit your face @ a 20 degree angle, I though that you were attractive… but now since I’m sitting right next to you, I realized that well…” And then he stopped. @ this point she was bubbling over with anticipation. After a brief pause he continued, “… I realized that I was right.” A bright red smile came over her face, and after a little more conversation, he got her number, and her other friends’ too!
I took a lot of time to analyze why this worked… and then of course to test it’s success rate I tried it a bunch of times myself. This kind of compliment, worked like a charm… on all different kinds of girls! I even tried it on this girl that I am in the friend zone with, a couple days later we went to the club, and if I was not with somebody… I could have gotten some!!! The reason why it works is fairly simple. The Hit of Anticipation as I call it, focuses on something that burns strongly in women… curiosity. Everyone knows that women would like nothing more than to know something, and the more that you try to hide something, the more that they want to know it. The few seconds that my cousin paused and looked like he was unsure of his first opinion of her, she was consumed with curiosity. She became curious because, @ first she expected for him to say that she was attractive, but because he didn’t, it threw her for a loop… in her head she’s going, “I thought he was going to call me cute… is he about to embarrass me in front of my friends and call me ugly?” And once he finally said that she was attractive, it forced her to redirect her thought process. Now she’s thinking, “Okay, so he does think I am attractive… I wonder what took him so long to say it? Is my hair okay? Did I put on my makeup right? Why is this guy making me feel like this… he’s pretty interesting.” We all know that the more people think about something, the more that they become attracted to it. I define the Hit of Anticipation as, “A hesitant compliment, by which the receiver of the compliment believes that they are about to receive a compliment, until your hesitation in giving it automatically forces them to think other wise. Small hesitation and then the continuing of the initial compliment, throws the receiver of the compliment completely out of whack, and makes you look interesting, complex, and best of all a challenge.”
I know… pretty complicated. Because the definition is still tentative, I decided to draw up an equation.
Begin complimentàhesitate/appear as if to reconsider giving compliment à proceeds in giving started compliment. I will admit, this is a bit of advanced move, and although it sounds confusing, I would not spend my time explaining this if it did not work. I will give you some examples to start you off.
“Hey, you know from back there when the light was hitting your face from a 30 degree angle… I thought you were attractive. But now that I am close to you (look of uncertainty + dramatic pause) I realized that I was right.”
“When I first met you I thought that you were cute… (look of uncertainty + dramatic pause) fortunately for you… I still do.”
That’s only two my brain will let me think of right now… but I am sure that we could all come up with some as time passes. Like many new things, this is still in is infant stage however, as time passes it will become a seasoned staple like the negative hit. Have fun trying it and I will do the same… let me know if you come up with some good ones. Coming in the next few weeks… Reloaded the Series Presents: the maze that is the female mind. Later guys, and good luck.
Do not try and bend the spoon… that’s impossible. Instead, only realize the truth…
The truth?
… There is no spoon.
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"Enjoy life. There's plenty of time to be dead."
Anon
"What lies behind us and what lies ahead of us are tiny matters compared to what lives within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
"Live every day as if it were your last, because one of these days, it will be."
Jeremy Schwartz
"You change the world first, and the rules second. You change yourself first, and then the world second."
Julian Richard Gibbs better known as The Matrix: Reloaded
[This message has been edited by The Matrix: Reloaded (edited 10-09-2002).]
The High School Don Juan Bible describes a negative hit as a “A small compliment and minor insult mixed together, gives you respect while lowering her off her pedestal.” And while I must admit that the negative hit has been somewhat effective, it’s just too dependent on the person. In order for a negative hit to really work, the girl has to be really attractive, has to have guys fawn all over her. However, it has been my experience that unless the girl’s personality is like the aforementioned, or she has a lot of self-esteem… they may find your negative hit to be just that… negative. I have discovered that the negative hit is just not effective enough, so I have managed to come up with something… it is like a negative hit, however it has a bit of a twist. I first came up with this idea when I saw my older cousin perform something that intrigued me. We both worked @ the same restaurant over the summer. Needless to say, a lot of fine girls came there. One day, there was this group of about three girls that he had the balls to approach. Although, he was able to charm all of them (I’ll explain how to attract groups of girls another time) I had focus on one… @ least I could see that. He said to the one he had the most interest in, “You know from back there when the light hit your face @ a 20 degree angle, I though that you were attractive… but now since I’m sitting right next to you, I realized that well…” And then he stopped. @ this point she was bubbling over with anticipation. After a brief pause he continued, “… I realized that I was right.” A bright red smile came over her face, and after a little more conversation, he got her number, and her other friends’ too!
I took a lot of time to analyze why this worked… and then of course to test it’s success rate I tried it a bunch of times myself. This kind of compliment, worked like a charm… on all different kinds of girls! I even tried it on this girl that I am in the friend zone with, a couple days later we went to the club, and if I was not with somebody… I could have gotten some!!! The reason why it works is fairly simple. The Hit of Anticipation as I call it, focuses on something that burns strongly in women… curiosity. Everyone knows that women would like nothing more than to know something, and the more that you try to hide something, the more that they want to know it. The few seconds that my cousin paused and looked like he was unsure of his first opinion of her, she was consumed with curiosity. She became curious because, @ first she expected for him to say that she was attractive, but because he didn’t, it threw her for a loop… in her head she’s going, “I thought he was going to call me cute… is he about to embarrass me in front of my friends and call me ugly?” And once he finally said that she was attractive, it forced her to redirect her thought process. Now she’s thinking, “Okay, so he does think I am attractive… I wonder what took him so long to say it? Is my hair okay? Did I put on my makeup right? Why is this guy making me feel like this… he’s pretty interesting.” We all know that the more people think about something, the more that they become attracted to it. I define the Hit of Anticipation as, “A hesitant compliment, by which the receiver of the compliment believes that they are about to receive a compliment, until your hesitation in giving it automatically forces them to think other wise. Small hesitation and then the continuing of the initial compliment, throws the receiver of the compliment completely out of whack, and makes you look interesting, complex, and best of all a challenge.”
I know… pretty complicated. Because the definition is still tentative, I decided to draw up an equation.
Begin complimentàhesitate/appear as if to reconsider giving compliment à proceeds in giving started compliment. I will admit, this is a bit of advanced move, and although it sounds confusing, I would not spend my time explaining this if it did not work. I will give you some examples to start you off.
“Hey, you know from back there when the light was hitting your face from a 30 degree angle… I thought you were attractive. But now that I am close to you (look of uncertainty + dramatic pause) I realized that I was right.”
“When I first met you I thought that you were cute… (look of uncertainty + dramatic pause) fortunately for you… I still do.”
That’s only two my brain will let me think of right now… but I am sure that we could all come up with some as time passes. Like many new things, this is still in is infant stage however, as time passes it will become a seasoned staple like the negative hit. Have fun trying it and I will do the same… let me know if you come up with some good ones. Coming in the next few weeks… Reloaded the Series Presents: the maze that is the female mind. Later guys, and good luck.
Do not try and bend the spoon… that’s impossible. Instead, only realize the truth…
The truth?
… There is no spoon.
------------------
"Enjoy life. There's plenty of time to be dead."
Anon
"What lies behind us and what lies ahead of us are tiny matters compared to what lives within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
"Live every day as if it were your last, because one of these days, it will be."
Jeremy Schwartz
"You change the world first, and the rules second. You change yourself first, and then the world second."
Julian Richard Gibbs better known as The Matrix: Reloaded
[This message has been edited by The Matrix: Reloaded (edited 10-09-2002).]
