"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Reloaded: The Series... Negative Hits

The Antichrist_Star

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Hmm...that sounds like a good idea, in the meantime, I better get to work on the new post entitled, Reloaded: The Series... So to Speak
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My two cents:
this newer version of neghits are somewhat afcish.

they are pick-up lines with a pause.

example:

"when i saw your fac at a 20 degree angle over there i thought you were cute, and now that im right here........i was right."

she gets put in suspense for a second, but in the end she will realize that it a pathetic attempt to flatter her. if she does go for it, it is because she doesnt get anough attention lol.

similar line goes "in that white coat you look like a scientist. and i would love to be your natural selection (chessy grin. slap across face follows.)"
 

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I'm still working on this a bit, so bare with me... but it's still worked for me and others... whether it's considered to be a pick up line or a negative hit, is a debatable topic.
 

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If it's used on a girl you've already established a rapport with, then it wouldn't really be a pickup line.
 

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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 

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im gonna try this...
too bad the dj bible has been unstickyed....
 

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Great idea, sounds very good.

You:When i first saw you i thought you have beautiful eyes
Pause(look deeply into her eyes)
And now i am sure of that.

When i first saw you hair gathered i thought it looked good
Pause
But now when it is unbound it lookes amazing.

First when i saw you i was sure you were [insert a famous model name her].
Pause
But now i am sure you look better.

And this is from someone else:

You have a great smile
Her:Thank you
But, i am sorry to tell you it is only the secound best smile i saw.
Her: (courious) Who has the best one
You:Me.
she smiles
you(smiling) But if you keep like this your will be no.1 in no time.
 
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