Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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nosmirk

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i have noticed that stuff in the DJBible mainly refers to girls that are more 'out-going', in the sense that they club and have a more extroverted social life.

also, with the exception of a few posts, it can be said that most of the writers here have the assumption that all girls are the same and that they all respond to more sexually assertive guys.


my question here would be: are religious girls to be treated with the same basic techniques that are brought up in the DJC?

most of them appear to shun physical contact such as kissing, not to mention sex, at the inital stages of the interaction. they also refuse to participate in activities deemed immoral, such as going to clubs for example.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yeah yeah ur right. They are often the most horny though once u get them to open up. (no pun intended)
 

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#2, open up?


dont forget about their no-sex-before-marriage mindset
 

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My experience has been to not alter your technique based on that. This is another one of those things where what they say and what they do isnt the same. The really religious will say God is first, but I think they essentially respond the same way as the non-religious ones, and are going to want the "jerks" the most just like other women.

What you'll find is that they rationalize it by thinking they'll just "change" that part about you but "give in" in the meantime. If/when they realize they cant change you, they just keep it on the downlow to their friends that you're really a bad boy. They think "no one has to know, and its their little secret" that they have a lot of fun endulging in.

Women are first, and foremost sexual creatures. Whether they choose to admit this is irrelevant to this truth. You know this secret, and use it to your advantage.
 

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i'm dealing with one right now, my girl is completely into that no sex before marriage stuff. in fact, her one year ex, and not to be gay or anything, but hes a good looking guy, can't resist hugging him myself, but anyways supposedly they never did it(don't know if this is true)

anyways shes fairly open with sex topics when it comes to talking, we talk about dirty thigns all the time, but she still stands by her no sex before marriage crap
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The answer is YES, you do have to word your gaming of them differently, talk about God and not swear, these HBs still like the hunks and are no different to any of the so called Worldly HBs in this way. :yes:
 

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azanon said:
My experience has been to not alter your technique based on that. This is another one of those things where what they say and what they do isnt the same. The really religious will say God is first, but I think they essentially respond the same way as the non-religious ones, and are going to want the "jerks" the most just like other women.

What you'll find is that they rationalize it by thinking they'll just "change" that part about you but "give in" in the meantime. If/when they realize they cant change you, they just keep it on the downlow to their friends that you're really a bad boy. They think "no one has to know, and its their little secret" that they have a lot of fun endulging in.

Women are first, and foremost sexual creatures. Whether they choose to admit this is irrelevant to this truth. You know this secret, and use it to your advantage.
Jerks are not AlphaMales dude, they are different. :yes:
 

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nosmirk said:
#2, open up?


dont forget about their no-sex-before-marriage mindset

You get a girl turned on enough and those legs will spread wide open for you. :yes:

PigAdlemPimp said:
The answer is YES, you do have to word your gaming of them differently, talk about God and not swear, these HBs still like the hunks and are no different to any of the so called Worldly HBs in this way. :yes:
I disagree. Just do what works to attract the ladies and she'll open up to you. A "religious" girl will date and fvck a guy who's doesn't talk about God and swears if she's attracted enough to him. Hell, I had sex with a girl and she ended up taking me to church the next morning. There's no need to supplicate to their religious ideals.
 

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Egh... couldn't even imagine religious girls. I swear, am disrespectful towards and mock religion, as well as hate the whole idea... so I guess there is a reason they don't like me.
 

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To be honest its probably best to stay away from the religious nuts.
Not to say theres tons of non relgious girls out there anyways. Plenty of fish in the sea.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I find a difference between the religious girls who are new to Christianity as compared to the girls who grew up in a religious family. The latter have often been conditioned to be sexual prudes, but girls who 'find Jesus' later in life often don't drop their old sex habits.
 

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I don't think they're worth the extra effort... but damn if some of them aren't tempting because of it.

There used to be this Catholic church youth group that came in to meet at my work a couple of years ago. A few of them were beautiful, and seemed more than a little naiive... which made them even hotter (i.e. you can "show them stuff").

Of course, I assumed they were prissies who never had any fun. Then I saw one of them at the mall, and in general conversation she said "hey, we like to have fun too... we had a party last week and all got really drunk".

Would have liked to have been at that party.
 

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I know plenty of girls who are devout to their religious causes, except for the whole sex before marriage thing. Amazing how selective people are on the rules of religion
 

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If you want a girl for a serious, long-term relationship, i would recommend a religious girl. I think religious girls are higher quality than the average slvt, plus they have a higher chance of being faithful.

Some might be open for sex before marriage, depending on how they were brought up. And even though they may SAY they are waiting for marriage, if you make them fall in love with you, there is a chance they will sleep with you to keep you. Now i am not recommending you fool one of these girls just to get in their pants, but hey you do what you want...

I know 2 girls who are very religious (one is my gf), and they both had sex before marriage despite initially saying they wanted to wait for marriage.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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