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Religious Fanatic

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Anyone has any info on how to deal with hot women who in every sentence uses the word jesus, or god or love, or salvation or end of days?

Met this girl who thinks i'm cute today, and we started having a great convo sharing points in common, and i saw he interest in me rising.When all of a sudden she shifts the subject towards religion, and i thought to myself, omfg, a religious fanatic.

I started talking about my own oppinions about the way i perceive God and Jesus as entities and not religious icons, about how the Crusades in the name of God were the biggest unjustified bloodbath in the history of mankind, and bammm, as i start noticing the error i made she's telling me she's gotta go, was nice meeting you, using words as friend...


Is there a way to win her IL, or she's just not worth it?
 

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i wouldnt even get involved with someone that religious just for the fact that im agnostic and cant stand when people try to force their ideas down your throat. let people believe what they want but if you just met her and its already overhelming you i would say next her ass.

let her argue over who has a better imaginary friend with someone else
 

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she might dump you in 2 weeks anyways because God may want her to "fast by herself" for 3 months. Since she "had to go" immediately, means she's most likely playing you. Especially since she didn't leave any room for you to apologize.

Don't think about her anymore. If she has any good qualities, she will come back to you.
 
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When you attacked her beliefs[even though there are more wars fought in the name of religion,but are actually land/power grabs dressed up with religion][God wouldn't condone all the things done in His name],you ended any chance of ever scoring her. Her being nice and saying friend-you are a friend she hopes to never see again. She'd have plenty of good qualities as a WIFE-as long as you are with the whole program-you aren't going to match up with her unless you convert.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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its better this way anyway, i have my beliefs and no one is gonna brainwash me, just for some pu$$y
 

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i still try to bang religious girls. but i won't compromise my beliefs for them.

a few of them are pretty crazy and get wet for jesus but most aren't that serious and only talk about god to feel accepted and/or less guilty about being a slvt because hey, how big of a slvt can you be if you "believe" in god and go to church?
 

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IRON LAW: NEVER talk about Religion or Politics to girls in the attraction phase

It's a seriously big land mine, so much can go wrong. Not only will the girl think you're boring if you keep politicising the convo, but you'll probably offend them too with your beliefs.
 

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Dude, religious girls are the HORNIEST of them all. If there's one thing I've learned about people over the years, it's that they are all of full of sh*it. And these Bible-thumping Christians are OVERFLOWING with sh*t.

Think about it. Our desire for sex is one of our most fundamental biological drives. And these people are trying to suppress it. Guess what? Refusing to acknowledge one of your most powerful biological needs is a TERRIBLE idea.

When I was in college, we had a term for girls like that. We called them "Bible sluts." It's actually a pretty common term. These chicks are the EASIEST to bang. And I kid you not. The more you try to suppress your desire for sex, the more you want it!

Look at it like this. If you could NEVER get laid, and you couldn't even masturbate (and religious Christians aren't supposed to masturbate, although I'm sure most of them do), imagine how horny you'd be. Sh*t, I'm sure your dog would start to look appealing at that point! If you found yourself in a position to have sex, do you think you'd be able to resist?

I recently moved towns. But where I was before (I was there until December), I started to hang out with one of these religious chicks. She'd keep telling me about how Jesus was the center of her life etc. I didn't engage her in these religious discussions. I just nodded and quickly changed the subject.

Anyway, the first time I went for a kiss close, this girl was a FVCKING FREAK. I went for a soft peck on the lips, instead, she rammed her tongue right down my throat and yanked me really hard towards her.

Needless to say, it was easy to get the lay. There was some mild resistance at the part when I told her to take off her bra, but once that came off, it was smooth sailing.

Not only was this girl down to fvck, she fvcked like a wild animal. That's what happens when you try to suppress your desires. When it comes out, it's going to be like a caged beast that has finally found freedom.

In short, pursue this girl. Avoid conversations about religion. But escalate in the same way as you would with any other chick. You'll be SHOCKED (pleasantly) at how horny she is.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
Anyone has any info on how to deal with hot women who in every sentence uses the word jesus, or god or love, or salvation or end of days?

Met this girl who thinks i'm cute today, and we started having a great convo sharing points in common, and i saw he interest in me rising.When all of a sudden she shifts the subject towards religion, and i thought to myself, omfg, a religious fanatic.

I started talking about my own oppinions about the way i perceive God and Jesus as entities and not religious icons, about how the Crusades in the name of God were the biggest unjustified bloodbath in the history of mankind, and bammm, as i start noticing the error i made she's telling me she's gotta go, was nice meeting you, using words as friend...


Is there a way to win her IL, or she's just not worth it?
Although I agree with what you said next time be clear of your opinion and if it comes down to it agree that you value her opinion and would maybe like to learn more.

but in the case of the first underlined part...as stated above, don't walk away but RUN!
 

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Yeah guys, we're not talking about chicks who believe in "god" or are moderately religious. Look at the guy's first sentence.
 

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You will never get a religious girl by talking about religion, especially speaking against it. You directly insulted her beliefs..there is no attraction after that. The best you can do and still be true to yourself is allow her to be who she is and believe what she believes and game her just the same.
 

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CaptainJ said:
IRON LAW: NEVER talk about Religion or Politics to girls in the attraction phase

It's a seriously big land mine, so much can go wrong. Not only will the girl think you're boring if you keep politicising the convo, but you'll probably offend them too with your beliefs.
THIS^^^^^

why were you even talking about religion anyway?
 

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Let me put my 2 cents in real quick: Stay the f*ck away from religious girls. There is nothing wrong with a girl who believes in some god or bull**** like that, but the fanatics are horrible.

I work as a barman in a student pastorate where we have a mix over several student societies and religious groups, and all the religious groups are total nutters. No pre-marial sex, believing all of us go to hell because we don't believe in their fairytale, and crazy stuff like that.

All the guys I've seen attempt to take these girls on ending up with something really bad. The girls tried to convince them to believe in god, come to church, talk them how bad their lifestyle is and drag them into their nutter group. Stay away from them, you might aswell get yourself a girl that likes cutting herself and have a personality disorder.

I don't get why we lock people into mental hospitals when they hear voices in their head or see things the rest of us don't see, but the moment they think there is some almighty power in the sky, they're allowed to amass into buildings called churches and harass me with their ideals.
 

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SandHawk said:
Let me put my 2 cents in real quick: Stay the f*ck away from religious girls. There is nothing wrong with a girl who believes in some god or bull**** like that, but the fanatics are horrible.

I work as a barman in a student pastorate where we have a mix over several student societies and religious groups, and all the religious groups are total nutters. No pre-marial sex, believing all of us go to hell because we don't believe in their fairytale, and crazy stuff like that.

All the guys I've seen attempt to take these girls on ending up with something really bad. The girls tried to convince them to believe in god, come to church, talk them how bad their lifestyle is and drag them into their nutter group. Stay away from them, you might aswell get yourself a girl that likes cutting herself and have a personality disorder.

I don't get why we lock people into mental hospitals when they hear voices in their head or see things the rest of us don't see, but the moment they think there is some almighty power in the sky, they're allowed to amass into buildings called churches and harass me with their ideals.
I'm not into that religious mumbo jumbo myself. But, most of these high and mighty Christians are secretly horny as fvck. You might as well take the easy pickings. Now obviously, I'd never want to enter into a long term relationship with one of these Bible sluts, but I sure don't mind getting freaky with them! And believe me, they fvck like wild animals!
 

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